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I've read your posts on your other threads. Quite an interesting story...

I used to think prostitution was a victimless crime, but I've changed, since so many of the customers are married. So even if your W - or you - became a whore of her own free will, she's likely to damage someone.

But if your story is true, you need a lot more help than you can get on an Internet forum.

Strippers instead of food for your kids? Fix yourself, and fast!

So far EVERYONE is on my side with this. A few strippers I know even commented that if she's going to do something like that, she should at least take dance classes first. Those awkward gyrations she called dancing weren't very becoming, and looked even worse without the support of a pole (since she got booted from stage in 0.2sec,her dancing was mostly confined to dancing behind the bar stools on the bar floor). They all said I shouldn't even try to stay with a ho like that.

.......what in the ever loving FUDGE?!?!? You need help, your wife needs help. You are both in messed up places.

Strippers are giving you advice? Please consider it crap. Stop talking to them, spending money on them, and instead talk to your wife and spend money on counseling and groceries.

Plan C.....

"Prostitutes don't do any harm"?????

Are you fucking kidding me?????

Please excuse the language, but that is just gross.

[This message edited by WhatsRight at 11:26 AM, October 7th (Saturday)]

You’ve posted before how you have gotten handjobs and blowjobs from strippers.

You posted that you didn’t have any money to buy your wife a birthday present on her birthday.

Now you miraculously came up with $240 bucks to get a champagne room with Kelly the stripper.

And you are embarrassed of your wife’s behavior and call her a ho?

I hope she kicks your lying, cheating toxic ass to the curb.

So...how many kids toys could you by with $240?

Forget toys... imagine what could be in their kids' college funds if they gave up strippers and drinking.

[This message edited by Roblox83525 at 9:24 AM, October 10th (Tuesday)]

[This message edited by Roblox83525 at 9:25 AM, October 10th (Tuesday)]

[This message edited by Roblox83525 at 9:55 AM, October 10th (Tuesday)]

She's only doing this stuff to harass and annoy me!

She wants to embarrass you and make you feel ashamed because that's how she feels. Do you understand that? She does not care about impressing people, just shaming you. And it's working! So while horribly sad, if she is causing your remorseless self distress, then what she is doing is at least accomplishing its goal! (I am smiling about that part.)

So far EVERYONE is on my side with this. A few strippers I know even commented that if she's going to do something like that, she should at least take dance classes first. Those awkward gyrations she called dancing weren't very becoming, and looked even worse without the support of a pole (since she got booted from stage in 0.2sec,her dancing was mostly confined to dancing behind the bar stools on the bar floor). They all said I shouldn't even try to stay with a ho like that.

Your focus is you, you, you, how dare she do this to you, and everyone here at SI knows the sound of narcissism when they hear it. No wonder she is going nuts.

I do not think your M can or should be saved; it's too unhealthy. Can I ask, why would you want to stay M? You spend money and time cheating at strip clubs, you call these people your friends ($240 will indeed buy that pretense), you proceed to make fun of your wife both behind her back and to her face. So why are you still in this M? To get your laundry done and meals cooked? Are you using your W to make your life easier?

You go to strip clubs so often that its the only way for your wife to get attention from you. I feel sorry for her.

Most of your threads are of you just shitting on your wife and her behavior. But what changes are you making?

Also stop thinking you're friends with strippers. You are their client. Go ahead and ask Kelly for that $240 back so you can feed your kids, see what she says. What a true friend she must be.

never mind...

[This message edited by sassylee at 1:50 PM, October 7th (Saturday)]

We're talking her dressed up like a hooker, shaking her booty for black guys like it's going out of style

Oh lawd....

I have no advice to offer, but will just say you both sound toxic for each other.

[This message edited by Roblox83525 at 9:26 AM, October 10th (Tuesday)]

Why is your wife a ho but the strippers apparently consider themselves above that label?

Do you not see anything wrong with YOUR attitude about all this, not just your wife's?

You both are wrong. You don't have respect for each other, you are both engaging in behavior that is toxic. You vilify your spouse and let others do it to make you feel better, that is not going to fix anything.

Your mother must be proud of you son.

What has she to, or would she, say about all of this?

From what I've glanced over, because I couldn't read everything you posted, it seems to me that you are more concerned by your wife's lack of dancing skills than why she is acting out this way. If the poor woman decides to stay in this relationship, would you find more value in her if you invested in dance classes, better costumes? With some effort, she could become good at this and then you wouldnt need to worry about how to feed the kids.

Oops, sorry to put that on you, since worrying about feeding the kids is just too inconvenient.

This whole story stinks of troll.

Garbage. I don't buy any of it for a hot second.