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Reconciliation :
Do male (BSs) ever get over the sexual insecurities/worthlessnes

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HouseOfPlane ( member #45739) posted at 9:33 PM on Wednesday, June 20th, 2018

MM42, sometimes the two most powerful words in the English language are..

"Fuck it"

The thoughts will or won't be around, so just get on with getting on. They'll be there waiting for you later, don't worry. But they'll be changed in your relationship to them.

Sending strength!

DDay 1986: R'd, it was hard, hard work.

“Tell me, what is it you plan to do
with your one wild and precious life?”
― Mary Oliver

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Notthevictem ( member #44389) posted at 11:22 PM on Wednesday, June 20th, 2018

Yeah man. I have no sexual insecurities. In fact, i have no fucks about any sexual evaluation anyone else had of me.

Ain't nothing you did or didnt do make her cheat. She cheated because she wanted to. It was never within your control.

It did take me a couple years to get it though. Or really feel it. I knew it intellectually. I just didn't feel it. You'll get there too.

BH
DDAY Mar 2014
Widowed 2022 - breast cancer

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