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Gottman, good or bad?

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gmc94 ( member #62810) posted at 3:33 AM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2019

He, however, did have a problem communicating honestly with me. And now that he's blown up the marriage, I'm expected to work on something I never caused a problem with? I'm struggling with that, tbh.

Me too. I was honest (some say to a fault).

BUT - I have to say that digging in on my own healing has pointed me to some things -including communication styles - that I would like to change. For myself. And, at the end of the day, the fact that the WS' shitty coping, communication, etc doesn't necessarily matter. There is no justice.

[This message edited by gmc94 at 9:37 PM, March 25th, 2019 (Monday)]

M >25yrs/grown kids
DD1 1994 ONS prostitute
DD2 2018 exGF1 10+yrEA & 10yrPA... + exGF2 EA forever & "made out" 2017
9/18 WH hung himself- died but revived

It's rude to say "I love you" with a mouthful of lies

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