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StillLivin ( member #40229) posted at 10:14 PM on Saturday, August 29th, 2020
You will heal and stop grieving when you go complete NC. Find a new hiking buddy or get a dog that loves to hike.
Forgiveness is just accepting that this is who he is and that you don't have to allow yourself to get dragged into his drama. When you go complete NC, you won't care what he's doing or who he's doing it with. You also won't care who is posting on his FB or what they're saying. At present, you are just pain shopping. Change your number, block him on social media, and don't pain shop anymore. Just refuse to do it! There's no magic pill that makes you strong. It will be hard as hell at first. There may even be times when you fall off the NC horse. Get back on. It's really a gut check. But eventually, over time, when you get used to no more drama, it will get easier.
[This message edited by StillLivin at 4:15 PM, August 29th (Saturday)]
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