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Sadismynewname ( member #63897) posted at 11:41 PM on Sunday, November 22nd, 2020
Oh good grief Bingo! Like I wrote to you before this is an explosion waiting for a match! Poor kids living with someone that doesn’t like kids. My stepfather was like that and it does a number on your self esteem. This could have been me! I kept asking the old fool. Exactly what does a 28 year old exhooker, fifth grade educated, barely speaking English woman and a 73 year old college educated person talk about? Mine has been impotent (no viagra doesn’t work) for 20 years. Someone told me once here that is the golden goose to these Vietnamese hookers because they don’t even have to sleep with them! I feel your pain really I do! It is so flipping insulting to have someone you love leave you high and dry for that garbage. I have been on a fairly even course this month but this just might trigger it again!
Bingo (original poster member #72835) posted at 12:37 AM on Monday, November 23rd, 2020
Oh Sad....I'm so sorry for the trigger!
You and I have pm'd and we can both relate to each other's story.
Again, so sorry!!
Cooley2here ( member #62939) posted at 1:08 AM on Monday, November 23rd, 2020
I had a neighbor, a woman, who cheated. She then kept chasing unavailable men because she was convinced she was the sexiest thing on the planet. She drove her children away. She is now an old woman married to a man who has no idea what her behavior was like. Some people believe their own fantasies. Your ex is one of them.
In my work I see so many older men and women being conned out of their money. In the US you can be a total idiot and unless you are declared incompetent you can act like this dude. I know of a man who was widowed and his wife’s obit was written in a state newspaper because she was well known. Her poor elderly husband welcomed a “nurse” in to help him and she took nearly a million dollars from him. You would not believe how common this is.
When things go wrong, don’t go with them. Elvis
Westway ( member #71747) posted at 6:47 PM on Monday, November 23rd, 2020
Bingo, I have a practical question, and I am sorry if this causes you pain. You don't have to answer if you don't want.
How is a 73 year old going to keep a young wife like that sexually satisfied? Is he going to let her bring men over?
Me: 52;
XWW: 50 y.o. serial cheater
Married 22 years, Together 24
2 Daughters: aged 16 and 20
DDay: 9/20/19
Divorced 12/03/20.
Bingo (original poster member #72835) posted at 2:08 AM on Tuesday, November 24th, 2020
Good question, Westway..
I guess there's so many fantasies for both of them.
So many red flags that should stop them...but it doesn't.
So true for many other affairs I read about on this site.
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