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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:03 AM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 4:10 AM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
6m here and I don't know that I'll be staying on much longer without having a little day trip soon.
Yoga just aint cutting it.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
hurtinky ( member #26152) posted at 4:17 AM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
It's been so long for me that I quit keeping up with how long its been. 
Last time was sometime in September 2005. 
I don't even think about it anymore. Kind of like I'm asexual or something.
Me --> BS
D-Day 10-1988
D-Day 9-12-2005
S 9-13-2005
D 3-6-12
Survivor3512 ( member #37946) posted at 4:22 AM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
It's been six months- am I a bus rider yet? I think I'll be on the bus for a long while... 
Me (BS)- 36
Divorced
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming- Dorie
heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 7:38 AM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
19 months (I had to go back in this thread to figure it out)
No signs of getting off the bus any time soon. Not dating, still kinda a mess. 
Oh but hey! I have beer. A whole cooler full of Arrogant Bastard in the 22oz bottles. We can fling the empties at bridge abutments and scream YOU'RE NOT WORTHY!!!!!
http://www.arrogantbastard.com
Who has snacks?
FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 12:00 PM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
18 months here. Not missing it as much as I thought I would. Although, didn't someone in some thread say that a-d meds can make you like that?? I'm trying to wean off them. So maybe I should reconsider.. .... oh, no, there goes the whole plan! I will either have to find a way off the bus or stay on the a-d meds! Well, I KNOW which one I would RATHER do!! 
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 3:15 PM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
It's been six months- am I a bus rider yet?
Welcome aboard, Survivor.
Newbies have to pick up the tab for the veterans. It's 2-fer Tuesday today. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 11:10 PM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
Did not mean to embarrass myself twice!!!! Geesh.
[This message edited by Lola2kids at 5:12 PM, January 29th (Tuesday)]
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 11:10 PM on Tuesday, January 29th, 2013
20 months here.
Coming up on d-day anniversary number 2 and feeling like i'll be on the bus forever. 
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 12:03 AM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
So, who wants my seat?
Okay, I'm not off the bus yet. I'm just really, really tired of being on it.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 12:10 AM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
Who's driving?
I believe Compartmented started bus driving duties back in September. I just earned my 6 month badge so I'm back on. Seems I missed the outer banks, California and Margaritaville. Have we made it to Australia yet? I've popped open a Foster's just in case!
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
NoTriangles ( member #35985) posted at 12:23 AM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
Aside from a one-night hop-off in Italy in September , I am 7 months on the bus.
I'm glad we are rolling again though!!!
I'll fix some martinis.
Where are we headed now? Did we give up on Australia??
Me: Finding my SunlightHim: Traitor in my FoxholeLet go or get dragged.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 1:22 AM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
NT if you're doing Chocolate martini's... I'll have one.
Is Australia having hot weather right now?
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 12:14 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
Very hot in Queensland, Australia right now and some flooded areas to detour the bus. Might need some off-road tires and a snorkel.
I'll take a chocolate martini or two too, please.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 12:29 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
Did we give up on Australia??
No - the damn bus made it to Australia.
t/j I've never actually seen a Fosters in Australia - only in the US end t/j
I'll take an Extra Dirty Martini Please. Old Fashioned. Whilst I think of day trips.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
EvenKeel ( member #24210) posted at 3:29 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
I temporary hopped off the bus for a wild time. Hey, if you are going to jump off the bus, you might as well go all out!
It was great..while it lasted.
[Shakes head hard to clear memories]
But now I hit the 6 month mark (again) so I can officially re-board the bus.
~Snuggling in~
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 3:43 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
It's been so long for me that I can't be sure of my last 'event' but I think it was in 2006, so hurtinky is probably the bus driver, but I'm at least the conductor.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
npain ( member #33539) posted at 8:38 PM on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013
18months on this wretched bus so far, with the ride being no end in sight...O well, gotta enjoy what I got!!!
S, Filed 4/17/14--YAY, ME!!
jilted12 ( member #35640) posted at 3:09 AM on Thursday, January 31st, 2013
Is there space for one more?
One year for me. D still not final, still nursing the baby, and can't even fathom dating right now so I will probably be here a while. 
Me: BS 42
Him: WS 40
Married 10 yrs, together 13
DS-9, DD-7, DS-3
D-Day 5/9/12, 2 days before #3 was born
Filed for D 8/12; D final 4/13
"I used to be married but I'm better now"
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:18 AM on Thursday, January 31st, 2013
jilted, there's always room for one more. And as the newest rider, you get to buy a round.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
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