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paboy ( member #59482) posted at 6:38 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2019
Had to grin about the dogs... And wow the house upgrades sound really great.. Your a man of your words. Set goals and are achieving them. Best of all, out of infidelity like a 'boss'.
Hope your WW finds her feet. Good to here about the 'karma' bus although it seems its now reversing back over her.
Furious1 ( member #42970) posted at 1:42 AM on Friday, January 18th, 2019
I'm late to the party, but congratulations on making it through that nightmare.
F1
BW (me): 46
2 adult kids
D-day: 10/4/13.
Divorced
Jeaniegirl ( member #6370) posted at 5:00 AM on Friday, January 18th, 2019
Weaver, I've not commented on your posts before.
I just have to say I'm more concerned, being an animal lover, that the doggies got a good home - than I am concerned about your ex. 
You've had a long road and I'm happy for you. Continue to give your son undying love and he will be fine.
"Because I deserve better"
NotTheManIwas ( member #69209) posted at 9:38 AM on Friday, January 18th, 2019
Reading your story is like seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Thanks for sharing, man.
M1965 ( member #57009) posted at 2:01 PM on Saturday, January 19th, 2019
Weaver,
Many thanks for the update. Like everyone else, I am glad to see how well you are doing. Life has many good things to offer you, and you certainly deserve them.
I think it can be hugely helpful for people to read threads that contain follow-ups and updates, because they show that things can work out, that life goes on, and there is light and more at the end of the tunnel.
Good for you, Weaver. I hope you will come back again and let us know how you are.
BBBD ( member #57475) posted at 3:16 PM on Saturday, January 19th, 2019
Congrats.
Pay it forward by sharing your story with anyone who is in the Dumps after D day.
pureheartkit ( member #62345) posted at 3:20 PM on Saturday, January 19th, 2019
Things sound good. You sound positive and your house projects are going well. I hope your sons mom can get away from the OM and start over too. She made a huge mistake and injured you in a cruel way but perhaps shes served her time as it were. You suffered but now have a good life. It's only getting better. You never quit even when you felt defeated.
Thank you everyone for your wisdom and healing.
babayaga ( member #69243) posted at 9:10 PM on Tuesday, January 22nd, 2019
Thank you for sharing your story and for the update. My Dday#2 was less than a month ago (rugswept Dday#1), and reading your post from a year ago, and recent update is very encouraging.
Good on you!
NEPAlady ( new member #66411) posted at 3:16 AM on Friday, January 25th, 2019
Weaver
Thanks for sharing your heart with everyone.
You showed that the rollercoaster ride comes to an end eventually.
I particularly admire your “Plan the work, work the plan” propelling you forward during the hardest times.
Wishing you all the best in your new beginning.
LivingWithPain ( member #60578) posted at 7:49 PM on Friday, January 25th, 2019
Weaver congratulations on moving forward.
As for your answers to your WW's messages, I know you are angry and you have every right to be. But you have expressed your disdain of her. You got it out of your system. Now you need to move on and channel that anger into positive pursuits. Stop going off on her. She got the message.
Next time your WW contacts you, keep your answers to her strictly business. The more you harp on her and tell her what an asshole she was to treat you the way she did, all you are doing is providing her with ammo to use against you.
[This message edited by LivingWithPain at 1:49 PM, January 25th (Friday)]
Me - 39; WW - 36
Married 13 years
1 Adopted Son age 18
Still married and living together: attempting to reconcile.
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