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Kuwaited ( member #5491) posted at 4:41 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
Oh my. So very sorry for your loss, Uni. 
"For every trip to the vet, there's a car ride.", Satchel Pooch.
"At some point in life, everyone has gambled on a fart and lost." -- Tad.
"When the bad stuff happens, you walk it off any way you can"
miadianna ( member #10516) posted at 4:42 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
I'm so sorry for your loss.
Me: BS 60Son: 34years oldDaughter: 32 years old Divorced 4/10/08XH passed away 6/24/16
woundedby2 ( member #18522) posted at 4:54 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
I'm so sorry, Uni. Holding you and DH up in prayer.
(((Uni & DH)))
In 2010 I divorced the NPD assclown who cheated on me with my best friend.
Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson
alluringillusion ( member #4029) posted at 5:03 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
I know Uni asked for prayers so I hope it is okay to share these two songs. They helped me through the recent loss of a family member. Save a place for me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbsBUf9VKyc&feature=channel
Amazing Grace My Chains are Gone
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K-mNT0axB9U
"I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again."
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 5:11 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
i have no words.
my thoughts and prayers for Uni and family
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
leapyearbaby ( member #24902) posted at 5:51 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
There are no words @ a time like this....
me BS the Big 6-0!!
him WS 56
married 28 years
together 31
DD 6/10/08
ow #1,2 lta on and off since 1995
ow 3 ons summer 2005
2 D, mine from prior marriage, but he raised them
R'ing...probably not....but then again, maybe....
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 5:56 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
Thank you all very much for all your support & prayers. I can't write a lot right now but will post more when I can. The outcome was never good for my adult "baby" in the earthly relm but I know your prayers & good thoughts worked a lot of smaller miracles that were greatly needed for all of us to deal with this. She was able to move on with many of the people she loved & her family surrounding her on her last moments here.
Our hearts are shattered but we know she is in a safe, peaceful, protected, untouchable by any wrongs or worries, pain free place now. She is in her permanent home now & as much as we will miss her, we could never guarantee that for here as she has gets to enjoy in heaven.
Our hearts are shattered & devastated at what's happened, but glad she will suffer here no more. It was a horrible accident that was one of those random senseless things that happen out of the clear blue. So please, give someone that matters to you an extra hug, kiss or tell them how they matter, the time available to do so can end very abruptly & without any warning.
Alluring, thank you for the beautiful songs, I hadn't heard those before. We just started to make the funeral arrangements but hopefully I'll get to include one in the service.
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 5:56 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
[This message edited by unicornsearcher at 7:22 PM, September 3rd (Friday)]
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
wincings_sparkle ( member #27129) posted at 6:12 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
Prayers for strength for you and your family as you gather together in this time of grief.
"When you hold resentment toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free."
- Catherine Ponder
Me-FWW. BH-wincing_at_light
TryingToBreathe ( member #14935) posted at 6:19 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
(((unicornsearcher&family)))
I am so very sorry for the loss of your DD. I wish I had some magic words to offer that would help to ease your pain. I'm afraid I'm not very good at knowing what to say.
Just know that you have an extended family here at SI who are here for you, whenever you just need someone to listen or a shoulder to cry on.
I will say prayers for your daughter, your family and for you.
sosad101 ( member #19736) posted at 6:37 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
Uni, I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for strength for you and your family.
Me, BW 57, Him WH 57; married 39 years
2 grown children 6 grandchildren
DDay 2-6-08
OW 30 and I had treated that POS like a member of our family
runoverbytruck ( member #11752) posted at 7:18 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
(((((((((((((Uni)))))))))))))))))))
I also pray for strength for you. This is so much more than you should ever have to bear.
Much love to you.
LTA BS
If you think the grass is greener on the other side, it's because it's fertilized with bullshit.
The best protection a woman can have is courage.~Elizabeth Cady Stanton
Hope24 ( member #9344) posted at 7:50 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
Oh Uni, I am so very sorry for your loss of your beautiful child.
She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.
Kjersti ( member #23316) posted at 7:53 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
I am so sorry for your loss.
sad12008 ( member #18179) posted at 12:25 PM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
My heart goes out to you and your family, Uni. I'm so sorry you've suffered such a terrible, untimely loss.
You can't fill a cup with no bottom.
rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 12:33 PM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
I'm so sorry for your loss and praying for you and your family.
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced
integritymatters ( member #23681) posted at 12:41 PM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
(((uni)))
I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. My prayers are with you.
I dropped my toast this morning and it landed butter side up! It's going to be a good day. :)
Dawning ( member #8577) posted at 12:49 PM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
(((hugs))) my prayers are with you and your family
dontknowwhyme ( member #21587) posted at 12:52 PM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
BS 38
FWW 37 (fireandice)
Married 13 Years - Together 20
D-Day1:Jan 08 (EA OM#1)
D-Day2:8-15-08 (EA/PA OM#2)
DS12, DS9
D-Day3:11-3-10
Divorced 1-27-11
Remember, you don't drown from being thrown in the water. You drown from staying in it.
SunsetLost ( member #3145) posted at 2:00 PM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
My deepest sympathies and prayers for you and your family, Uni
Rose Beyond the Wall
by A.L. Frink
A rose once grew
where all could see,
sheltered beside
a garden wall,
And as the days passed
swiftly by,
it spread its branches, straight and tall...
One day, a beam of light
shone through
a crevice that had
opened wide ~
The rose bent gently
toward its warmth
then passed beyond
to the other side
Now, you who deeply
feel its loss,
be comforted ~ the rose blooms there ~
its beauty even greater now,
nurtured by
God's own loving care.
Me-BS 45, xWH 48:
Kids 2 (18 yrs and 7 yrs)
D-Day 11/15/2008
Divorced 8/23/2010
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