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bbee ( member #17840) posted at 12:40 AM on Sunday, September 12th, 2010
This above all: to thine ownself be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.
Hamlet, Act I, Scene 3
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none.
All's Well That Ends Well, Act I, Scene 1
Tonya ( member #6) posted at 4:12 PM on Friday, November 19th, 2010
I was just searching google to see if I could find an old website I had to show my niece an old picture and came across this post with my name in it!!!
OMG DS!! I can't believe you posted PUBLICLY that I needed sex!!!! hahahaha It is sadly the truth though 
When are you coming to visit Vanjo and Buffalo?? 
And thanks for assuming the "hot blond" was me TrulyReconciled! LOL
Miss you guys!! Hope all my dear old friends are doing well and SMILING!!!!!!!
I have a date Sunday, we'll see how it goes 
Hopefully, I won't have to say NEXT to this one!!! Yes, still saying NEXT for those who remember my dating ways LOL
Age: 45
Married to MH :)
EX H had 3 month A w/coworker;DDay 4/10/01 D Final 6/15/01 I filed for D & moved on COMPLETELY!You can DEFINITELY have a happy life after infidelity & D! YOUR ACTIONS ARE SPEAKING SO LOUDLY I CAN HARDLY HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING
yewtree ( member #16671) posted at 5:28 PM on Friday, November 19th, 2010
And Tonya, Member #6 = I read your profile. You seem like a great lady - thanks for being with the others in the very beginning of this site. As member #16K+, I sure appreciate you ALL.
[This message edited by yewtree at 11:28 AM, November 19th (Friday)]
Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)
Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 - No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.
Tonya ( member #6) posted at 5:48 PM on Friday, November 19th, 2010
Awww thanks yewtree! Nice to "meet" you 
I used to be an admin here and was here for many years trying to give back a little of the help that was given me (on the other site before this one) when I so needed it There are some awesome people here!!!
Age: 45
Married to MH :)
EX H had 3 month A w/coworker;DDay 4/10/01 D Final 6/15/01 I filed for D & moved on COMPLETELY!You can DEFINITELY have a happy life after infidelity & D! YOUR ACTIONS ARE SPEAKING SO LOUDLY I CAN HARDLY HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING
Jessy1501 ( member #24483) posted at 5:52 PM on Friday, November 19th, 2010
Wow, #6?! Nice to meet you! I love your tag line. Sound like my kinda girl!
Attempting to give a fuck: ███████████████████] 99% Complete...ERROR!: Unable to give a fuck.
wonderingbull ( member #14833) posted at 6:09 PM on Friday, November 19th, 2010
Hi Tonya! Nice to *meet* you...
It's always good to read other survivors/thrivers stories.. I too, after the time to move pass the misery am pretty damn happy with the way my life has turned out...
Life goes on and it's what YOU make it!
WB
The secret of life is enjoying the passage of time...
James Taylor
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 6:14 PM on Friday, November 19th, 2010
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 6:18 PM on Friday, November 19th, 2010
TONYA!!!
I'd say it's good to see you but we just did 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 6:23 PM on Friday, November 19th, 2010
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
aLadypilot ( member #1822) posted at 9:23 PM on Friday, November 19th, 2010
Wow, hi Tonya!
I love it when old-timers come back to say hi.
Divorced 9/2010
Just married 7/4/13
SourCherryDrops ( member #25883) posted at 12:37 AM on Sunday, November 21st, 2010
What? Im blindsided again?
Ive only been here a little while, but i hadnt noticed any pack mentaility or hounding .... Surley i cant be that clueless. I guess the only other conclusion is that the Mods really do an absolutely fantastic job here, and in the whole of SI. I for one will never be able to really express my gratitude to the SI admin & Mod team, nor to the wider community. But i like to say thanks anytime i can.
Thanks guys.
Me BS 37, Her STBX 34, 1*ONS, 1*EA 1*PA/EA, 2*PA
Heading for D after 9 mths of R
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 4:30 AM on Sunday, November 21st, 2010
Read it, got it. Thanks for keeping us civilized.
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Vanjo ( member #110) posted at 11:11 AM on Sunday, November 21st, 2010
..negative people beat cancer also..
SI was where I finally found people who understood.
Tonya ( member #6) posted at 9:08 PM on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010
Hey again guys!! Been crazy busy at work handling a marketing project, so I'm just now able to come back and reply to y'all :)
Jessy1501 - Yep, I was here a long, L O N G time ago LOL If you like my tagline, I bet YOU are my kinda girl too (unless of course you are a guy in which case you are my kinda GUY! LOL) Oh and I LOVE yours too!!! That's awesome!! I'm definitely unable to give a f*** at all at this point and life is grand!! hahaha
wonderingbull - Aw, nice to "meet" you too!! I am so glad you are happy with your life now!! It takes a LOAD of work to get there, so good for you!!!!!!!!!! It really is what you make it!! :)
Catwoman - CAT!!!!!! Hey there girl!!! You still around here giving great advice I take it? :) Hope you are doing well!! Love the new tagline
Deeply Scared - Hahaha I know and I wish I were STILL THERE!!! Miss you and Papa MH SO MUCH!!!!!
TrulyReconciled - Hey there!!! Hahaha I like that "Tonya sighting" LOL Hope you are doing fabulous my friend!!! :)
aLadypilot - Hey there!!! Great to "see" you!!! :) Wait, for future reference, I prefer long-standing member to anything with the word OLD in it! LOL
SourCherryDrops - DS, MH and the mods do an AMAZING job here!! Hell, when I was visiting they kept having to leave me to tend to the board! LOL There's a ton behind the scenes members never see. You are well protected! :)
Vanjo - There's my Vanjo!! How are you doing buddy?! I figured you'd be married by now hahaha How is your health?! I sure hope you are doing well and missing me every single day
I'll try to pop in here more often. I miss all my SI friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Everyone have a fabulous Thanksgiving holiday!!!
Age: 45
Married to MH :)
EX H had 3 month A w/coworker;DDay 4/10/01 D Final 6/15/01 I filed for D & moved on COMPLETELY!You can DEFINITELY have a happy life after infidelity & D! YOUR ACTIONS ARE SPEAKING SO LOUDLY I CAN HARDLY HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:11 PM on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010
TONYA!!!!!!!!
Guess what??? Nope...still didn't burn you a CD of your pictures
BUT...I will have a ton of time over the holiday weekend
I miss you and can't wait for you to come back for your April visit!
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Catwoman ( member #1330) posted at 9:12 PM on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010
Cat is indeed doing well. Ask me about the dashing and wonderful Garage Door Man sometime.
Cat
FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 27 and 24. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."
Tonya ( member #6) posted at 9:23 PM on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010
DS - My family keeps bugging me wanting to see pics from my trip in OCTOBER, so I hope you will Have a Happy Thanksgiving and give Papa MH hugs for me too!!! Love y'all!!! Am I definitely coming in April then?? YAAAAAAAAAY! LOL
Cat - Hey, could you please tell me about the dashing and wonderful Garage Door Man now??? LOL
Age: 45
Married to MH :)
EX H had 3 month A w/coworker;DDay 4/10/01 D Final 6/15/01 I filed for D & moved on COMPLETELY!You can DEFINITELY have a happy life after infidelity & D! YOUR ACTIONS ARE SPEAKING SO LOUDLY I CAN HARDLY HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:27 PM on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010
I promise to get it to you this weekend!!
ANd yes...April for sure. We'll be VIP's at that huge festival - 3 days of red carpet treatment
Happy Thanksgiving honey...give your parents our love
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
Tonya ( member #6) posted at 9:32 PM on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010
Great, THANK YOU!!!
OMG that should be a BLAST!!!!! I'm so excited now that I know it's for sure
Send mama a Facebook wall post if you get a chance and tell her - she hardly ever has comments LOL Send my love to Judy too!
Age: 45
Married to MH :)
EX H had 3 month A w/coworker;DDay 4/10/01 D Final 6/15/01 I filed for D & moved on COMPLETELY!You can DEFINITELY have a happy life after infidelity & D! YOUR ACTIONS ARE SPEAKING SO LOUDLY I CAN HARDLY HEAR WHAT YOU ARE SAYING
Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 9:34 PM on Tuesday, November 23rd, 2010
Judy needs to get her own friends
I'll FB your mama
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)
My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.
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