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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 3:46 AM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2011
This is one of the reasons I'm happy I'm dealing with an OW, not an OM. 
Of course, in R my problem is that I wonder if she can really give up women! (I know I wouldn't want to.) Yikes!
Thanks to the women who have responded to this thread. Anonymity has its advantages.
Fyrman - it's great news that you and your W are talking about issues that matter to you.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex ap
d-day - 12/22/2010 Recover'd and R'ed
You don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
GeauxTigers ( member #28301) posted at 4:22 AM on Wednesday, April 27th, 2011
Sounds like you're making good progress, fyrman, and your WW is right: we know nothing about you guys other than a few words here and there. Some of the things said sounded like rugsweeping behavior to me ("compartmentalize","just move on", "doesn't think too much about her feelings of the A", etc...). Maybe I read too much into it, but it didn't feel like it.
Anyway, have her sign up, the water's warm.
Sigh... how did I end up here?
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