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mostlymine ( member #31511) posted at 5:59 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011
So glad to hear he is okay. 
BS- me (30ish)
See profile for details
Getting divorced... Wh is addicted to MOW
I edit because of typos...auto corrects stinks!
hoopla ( member #32797) posted at 6:07 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011
Glad he is okay. I think as a BS I am sometimes surprised at the enormity of a response I didn't expect to have. I was so looking forward to a sleepover once with WS and I triggered and had to leave. I was afraid I was goign to have a panic attack. I felt so guilt, that I went back in the wee early morning hours.
We are trying to commit to R as well and sometimes we cannot control what is going to set us off. Your honesty is amazing. I can see how truly sorry you are and how committed you now are to your BH. I am so glad this is how it turned out.
BS-me(38)
Ws-not me(39)
married 14 years, together almost twenty three
two children, 14, 17
ScubaGirl ( member #20001) posted at 7:33 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011
Brought flowers and appologised for putting me through hell the past few days.
Then he really surprised me. He said that he vowed to do everything he could to work toward R
Hmmm... can't help feeling: might he have had a revenge A while he was gone, and is now happy to jump off the fence because the score is even?
BW (me) - 52
FWH - 53
D-Day - 13 May 2007
Started R - 12 Sept 2007
2011 - as solid as I want us to be
pollybuddy ( member #20742) posted at 7:42 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2011
BS here, and very happy to read to the end and see the outcome that he's come home, safe, sound and ready to work on R!
ME: BW
HIM: FWH
Married 11/1989
One child, daughter, born 2/99
Affair: EA turned PA for 4 1/2 months.D Day 11/19/07 OW WAS employee/friend.
D Day 2, 4/30/09:OOPS turns out it never ended, I've been in false R for a year and a half.
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GoodFaith ( member #28249) posted at 1:51 AM on Friday, August 19th, 2011
This is amazing!
Glad to hear he's safe! He certainly must have had a major epiphany.
Please post his explanation when you get a chance.
I don't really buy the revenge A theory. He would come back sullen.
Still an amazing turn-around.
Blessings to you both.
BH (me) 56
WexW 49
3 Kids adult
DDay1 - 01/08/08 finaly found proof but still denied all.
DD2 31/08/2009 admited 4 cheats
DD3 20/01/2010 admitted 3 more
DD4 27/10/2016 this one is now
UnsettledOne ( member #32952) posted at 11:45 AM on Friday, August 19th, 2011
Wow, reading through this was an emotional rollercoaster.
Glad he found what he was looking for after leaving. He must have found overwhelming love for you.
You have a very good man.
verysorry97 (original poster member #32403) posted at 2:24 PM on Friday, August 19th, 2011
Thanks again for everyone's advice and support.
We had a deep, emotional talk last night where he gave me a lot of details about what he did and what he was feeling. I don't have time to post this today as I try to get life back to mormal. I will try to posts something within the next few days. It was intense. .
I don't think that it was a revenge A. He would win an oscar for his performance if everything yesterday was an act. But who can ever know for sure.
WW - Me 42
BH - 42
D Day 4/27/11
DS 21
DD 19
2 furry friends
Praying for a chance at R
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