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lifeblowntobits ( member #33687) posted at 2:07 AM on Wednesday, March 7th, 2012
needtofind it wasn't your fault for starting the thread. I just was very irritated to be judged over my actions which I clearly stated were wrong.
I don't think anyone got on here and stated that they were glad they hit their spouse or felt justified in doing so.
Your right, no one is perfect, no relationship is perfect and none of us should judge what the other has done. Even though we are all here b/c of infidelity, everyone's situation is different and NO ONE has the right to judge another!
Me-BS-44, Him-WH-45-very remorseful
OW-Married, opportunistic co-worker whore
DD#1 7-30-2011: everything else lies until 2-12-12
Married 11years, DS19y, DS15y
2.5 years out: in a good place, light at the end of the tunnel
jjsr ( member #34353) posted at 2:49 AM on Wednesday, March 7th, 2012
Like I said, I had a day where I stood there and let him have it verbally and then I slapped him across the face. It felt good, and I will not apologize to him or to anyone for it. He deserved it and he even agrees that he does after what his action have done to me and to our 27 yr relationship. Now will I hit him again? The answer is no. I certainly think this is different then abuse. Thats my opinion.
Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA and 10/28/15 NEW dday.
Just surviving.
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 10:10 AM on Wednesday, March 7th, 2012
needtofindwhoiam has requested that this thread be locked.
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
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