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What is your theme song?

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Neithan ( member #35924) posted at 5:21 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012

Eye in the sky by Alan Parsons Project.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNiie_zmSr8

Don't think sorry's easily said

Don't try turning tables instead

You've taken lots of chances before

But I ain't gonna give anymore

Don't ask me

That's how it goes

Cause part of me knows what you're thinkin'

Don't say words you're gonna regret

Don't let the fire rush to your head

I've heard the accusation before

And I ain't gonna take any more

Believe me

The sun in your Eyes

Made some of your lies worth believing

Me: BH
Her: WW
D-Day: 2/19/2010
Married 1981
That which does not kill me makes me more irritable

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EZ24get ( member #29752) posted at 9:07 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012

Alanis! Yes!

' That I Would Be Good '

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DCuhHprIf8&feature=related

...and Maroon5 'Pay Phone' is a favorite too...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TzxwOrT6Beo&feature=related

"...All these fairy tales are full of shit. One more fuckin' love song, I'll be sick. "

~SisterMilkshake,... Cee Lo! Totally! I do the same.

Told my request was one so unlike being you. Then, was punished for asking, by watching you become all that I needed, for someone new.
...so,..he traded my heart, for a hard-on.

BW~ me 44
CH~ he 45
2 kiddos~ 22 & 24
A-bombed Oct2010

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osca ( member #35628) posted at 10:43 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012

My playlist:

Animal I have become - three days gone

F you - C Lo

Survivor - destinys child

Can't listen to Adele anymore nor goyte

Me: BS 32
Him: WS 36
Kids: 3 yr Son
Complication: Expats living abroad
Married: 03/2006, together since 2003
Dday: April 7th 2012, 6 months emotional, 3 months physical
OW: 35, his first gf, daughter of a prostitute (no really!) Apple >> Tree

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Wonderingwhy11 ( member #34782) posted at 11:34 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012

I have several depending on the day's mood. They are:

Blow me (one last kiss) by Pink

Goodbye to you by Scandal

Stronger by Kelly Clarkson

Somebody I used to know by Gotye

Good feeling by Flo Rida

Apologize by OneRepublic

Good Life by OneRepublic

Me BW - 46
Him WH - 53
Together 23 yrs, Married 18
DDay August 2011
2 kids - 13 and 15

Gotta love the life that we livin'

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Sparkless ( member #36119) posted at 12:03 AM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

Brilliant Disguise by Bruce Springsteen

"I saw something tucked in shame underneath your pillow." That line gets me every time.

[This message edited by Sparkless at 6:05 PM, September 9th (Sunday)]

Me(BS)-41
WW-40
DDay March 25 2012
Sexting/Photos w/ LSB
DS 10, DS 8
Working on it

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whydothistome ( member #35959) posted at 12:05 AM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

"You love me" Kelly Clarkson

I say my hell is the closet I'm stuck inside, can't see the light.

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Please1983 ( member #35894) posted at 1:19 AM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

I don't listen to it often but for the last year it has been stuck in my head

The monks - I hate you

Also liking

Otis reading- you left the water running

Tom waits - long way home

Delakota - the rock

Leonard cohen - different sides

Janis Joplin - me and my bobby Magee

They don't all make sense for our stiuation but thats what I'm listen to.

In a sick twisted way I like The beach boys -then I kissed her and The crystals - then he kissed me

In the same way that in the early days I loved to play very loud to my WS dolly patrons D.I.V.O.R.C.E

Forget about it all just for fun music for me - Lee Dorsey.

[This message edited by Please1983 at 7:50 PM, September 9th (Sunday)]

BS me 30
WS him 31 (thankyou1981)
OW 19 year old at his work
Together 9 years
3 boys. 4, 3 and baby.
D-day 20 aug 2011

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vivere ( member #34465) posted at 1:38 AM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

Different songs for different moods..

Currently Skyscraper I prefer the Alex Goot version.

Skies are crying, I am watching

Catching teardrops in my hands

Only silence, has it's ending, like we never had a chance.

Do you have to make me feel like, there's nothing left of me?

You can take everything I have

You can break everything I am

Like I'm made of glass

Like I'm made of paper

Go on and try to tear me down

I will be rising from the ground

Like a skyscraper, like a skyscraper

As the smoke clears

I awaken and untangle you from me

Would it make you feel better to watch me while I bleed

All my windows, still are broken, but I'm standing on my feet

You can take everything I have

You can break everything I am

Like I'm made of glass

Like I'm made of paper

Go on and try to tear me down

I will be rising from the ground

Like a skyscraper, like a skyscraper

You are responsible for your own happiness :)

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Strongmama ( member #33062) posted at 2:39 AM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

[This message edited by Strongmama at 6:23 AM, September 11th (Tuesday)]

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messedup96 ( member #35936) posted at 4:24 AM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

Anything of Joan Osborn that's how he knows I'm pissed

take another piece of my heart Janis Joplin

And a few songs by robin but I lost my case I dont know the titles

BS me 42
WS 42
3 kids in the mix 23 years last Nov

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TaintedLove212 ( member #35522) posted at 4:37 AM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

You Lost Me by Christina Aguilera.

We

We are still together but it embodies how I feel about being betrayed. I love singing it loud except when I get to the part "How can I ever trust you again" I usually cry and then feel a little better.

Betrayed-me 33
Wayward him 33
DD 1/11 EA
CD 2/12 EA

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scissorhands ( member #34831) posted at 8:03 AM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

Adele

Rolling in the deep

Set fire to the rain

Pink - Fun house

50 ways to leave your lover?

DDay 1 12/02/2012
DDay 2 August 2015

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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 1:53 PM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

You've Got Another Thing Coming - Judas Priest

Over You - Daughtry

In the End - Linkin Park

Shut Up - Black Eyed Peas

The Disappointed - XTC

It's My Life - Talk Talk

Apologize - One Republic

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

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lynnm1947 ( member #15300) posted at 2:39 PM on Monday, September 10th, 2012

At the time of my split with XS/O, my theme song was Abba's "The Winner Takes It All".

Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks

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Escape artist ( member #34804) posted at 11:56 AM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012

For me definitely Florence and the machine....2 songs have really helped me through...

The first being Shake it Out....

Regrets collect like old friends

Here to relive your darkest moments

I can see no way, I can see no way

And all of the ghouls come out to play

And every demon wants his pound of flesh

But I like to keep some things to myself

I like to keep my issues drawn

It's always darkest before the dawn

And I've been a fool and I've been blind

I can never leave the past behind

I can see no way, I can see no way

I'm always dragging that horse around

And our love is pastured such a mournful sound

Tonight I'm gonna bury that horse in the ground

So I like to keep my issues drawn

But it's always darkest before the dawn

Shake it out, shake it out, shake it out, shake it out, ooh woaaah

Shake it out, shake it out, shake it out, shake it out, ooh woaaaah

And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back

So shake him off, oh woah

I am done with my graceless heart

So tonight I'm gonna cut it out and then restart

Cause I like to keep my issues drawn

And given half the chance would I take any of it back

It's a fine romance but its left me so undone

It's always darkest before the dawn

And I'm damned if I do and I'm damned if I don't

So here's to drinks in the dark at the end of my road

And I'm ready to suffer and I'm ready to hope

It's a shot in the dark and right at my throat

Cause looking for heaven, found the devil in me

Looking for heaven, found the devil in me

Well what the hell I'm gonna let it happen to me

Shake it out, shake it out, shake it out, shake it out, ooh woaaah

And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back

So shake him off.............

I gave you enough rope to hang yourself.
Me BS 48
Him WS 54
False DDay 06/02/12
3 simultaneous EA's
Multiple DDays thru till 16th April 2012
Disclosed PA 16th April 2012
Reality- alot sicker than I realized .......

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Escape artist ( member #34804) posted at 12:00 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012

The 2nd Florence song is

No light No light....the lyrics almost sound as if it could almost be from the WS's side of things, but just love the tune.....great for exercise....

You are the hole in my head

You are the space in my bed

You are the silence in between

What I thought and what I said

You are the night-time fear

You are the morning when it's clear

When it's over your start

You're my head

You're my heart

No light, no light in your bright blue eyes

I never knew daylight could be so violent

A revelation in the light of day

You can't choose what stays and what fades away

And I'd do anything to make you stay

No light, no light

No light

Tell me what you want me to say

Through the crowd I was

Crying out and

In your place there were a thousand other faces

I was disappearing in plain sight

Heaven help me

I need to make it right

You want a revelation

You want to get right

But it's a conversation

I just can't have tonight

You want a revelation

Some kind of resolution

You are the revelation

No light, no light in your bright blue eyes

I never knew daylight could be so violent

A revelation in the light of day

You can't choose what stays and what fades away

And I'd do anything to make you stay

No light, no light

No light

Tell me what you want me to say

But would you leave me,

If I told you what I've done

And would you leave me

If I told you what I've become

'Cause it's so easy,

To sing it to a crowd

But it's so hard, my love

To say it to you, all alone

No light, no light in your bright blue eyes

I never knew daylight could be so violent

A revelation in the light of day,

You can choose what stays and what fades away

And I'd do anything to make you stay

No light, no light

No light

Tell me what you want me to say

You want a revelation

You want to get right

But, it's a conversation

I just can't have tonight

You want a revelation

Some kind of resolution.

You are the revelation.

You want a revelation

You want to get right.

But, it's a conversation,

I just can't have tonight.

You want a revelation

Some kind of resolution

Tell me what you want me to say

Florence And The Machine No Light No Light

I gave you enough rope to hang yourself.
Me BS 48
Him WS 54
False DDay 06/02/12
3 simultaneous EA's
Multiple DDays thru till 16th April 2012
Disclosed PA 16th April 2012
Reality- alot sicker than I realized .......

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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 12:08 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012

This week it is Widespread Panic- Pleas

They say turn the bright lights on

And there you'll find the truth

Here, open up this book

And now you'll find the proof

It feels like a can of worms

Keep the lid on tight, and they say

Don't let it get too bright

Don't let it get too bright

Don't let it get too bright

No, not this time

They tell me it takes sorrow, boy

To help you feel the joy

They say it takes poverty

To let you love a toy

Now you can't have the good

Until you've shared the bad

Don't let it get too sad

Don't let it get too sad

Don't let it get too sad

No, not this time, time

They say it takes hardship, boy

To let you love the rest

Sometimes underneath the load

Is where I show my best

Go, put your work clothes on

Go and leave your mark

And they say

Don't let it get too dark

Don't let it get too dark

Don't let it get too dark

No, not this time

BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"

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OnTilt ( member #34140) posted at 1:30 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012

I have a theme 'album'

"You Can't Argue With a Sick Mind" by Joe Walsh

BS(Me), WH(Him) in our 50's
Status: I'm giving up on him

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navymom1 ( member #36007) posted at 4:10 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012

Stronger by Sara Evans !! Perfect song for all of us struggling !!

Woke up late today, and I still feel the sting of the pain.

But I brushed my teeth anyway, got dressed through the mess and put a smile on my face.

I got a little bit stronger.

Riding in the car to work, and I'm trying to ignore the hurt.

So I turned on the radio, Stupid song made me think of you,

I listened to it for minute, but then I changed it.

I'm getting a little bit stronger, just a little bit stronger.

And I'm done hoping that we can work it out,

I'm done with how it feels, spinning my wheels

Letting you drag my heart around.

And ohhh

I'm done thinking, that you could ever change.

I know my heart will never be the same,

but I'm telling myself I'll be okay.

Even on my weakest days, I get a little bit stronger.

Doesn't happen over night, but you turn around and a months gone by,

And you realize you haven't cried.

I'm not giving you a hour or a second or another minute longer.

I'm busy getting stronger.

And I'm done hoping that we can work it out,

I'm done with how it feels, spinning my wheels

Letting you drag my heart around.

And ohhh

I'm done thinking, that you could ever change.

I know my heart will never be the same,

but I'm telling myself I'll be okay.

Even on my weakest days, I get a little bit stronger.

I get a little bit stronger.

Getting along without you baby,

I'm better off without you baby,

How does it feel with out me baby?

I'm getting stronger without you baby.

And I'm done hoping that we can work it out,

I'm done with how it feels, spinning my wheels

Letting you drag my heart around.

And ohhh

I'm done thinking, that you could ever change.

I know my heart will never be the same,

but I'm telling myself I'll be okay,

Even on my weakest days, I get a little bit stronger.

I get a little bit stronger.

I'm just a little bit stronger.

A little bit, a little bit, a little bit stronger.

I get a little bit stronger

[This message edited by navymom1 at 10:16 AM, September 11th (Tuesday)]




Me-40
WS-42
Married 1995
DDay# 1995
DDAY#2- Jan 9,2012 2yr EA/PA with howorker
2-DD 22/15 and a son 20 (US NAVY)
Was tryin to R but to many false r. lies upon lies and not helping me heal now Seperated.....

I forgive people, but that

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tfiallos ( new member #36561) posted at 4:37 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012

I have several theme songs at this point LOL. I guess it all depends on where I am at in the whole big range of emotions that I am feeling these days.

#1 Before He Cheats by Carrie Underwood

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAFvlknsT4U

#2 Apologize by One Republic

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZSM3w1v-A_Y

#3 Irreplaceable by Beyonce

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2EwViQxSJJQ

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