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 careerlady (original poster member #16958) posted at 4:39 AM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

Thanks ladies, I feel I am doing well. I'm going to see the lawyer tomorrow and I already have a lead on a job in southern California where my family is. The only issue is won't be able to leave my job till at least July when my lease is up. I could pay to extend the lease but my fear is that WH will NOT move out. Then what? Coexist for 2-3 months? But if I really get a southern cali job I could be moving in a few months anyway. I'd hate to move twice and upset DS's schedule and familiarity twice. What should I do?

Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI

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momentintime ( member #16394) posted at 8:43 AM on Wednesday, April 24th, 2013

You live in California, right? Don't buy a house in your name alone unless you have some time of postnup. The house would be half his if you divorce. Protect yourself and your child. I see you are seeing a L, I hope he cautioned you about how vulnerable you are.

BS-me FWS - him
D-day 8/04
R'd

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