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Offhispedestal ( member #32528) posted at 4:19 AM on Sunday, May 19th, 2013
I have wasted probably days thinking and over thinking revenge when I first found out about the A.
My revenge thoughts became darker and scarier. At one point I wanted to take H's gun, drive to MOW house, shoot her and myself. I wanted to run her over with my car, I wanted to take her at gunpoint and torture her in every sick and demented way possible for days until she she would beg for me to kill her. I wanted to get her fired because she steals painkiller pills from her job for "personal use" I wanted to forward all the naked pics and videos of her to her boss and coworkers.
And this was just the tip of the iceberg of what I imagined doing.
The worst I did was expose her on cheaterville.com ... So far it has over a million views.
She's a serial cheater, fucked her H friend , fucked a council woman in our city ...
But guess what ?? I didn't do it , I didn't do any of it because I have kids and I plan to be part of their lives and not in jail or worse a cemetery .
That is the only difference between me and people in jail. Anyone IS CAPABLE of this type of revenge but I chose my family. My H and I are in a good place now and I shared my thoughts before and he was truly shocked that my anger was that scary. I know it's not worth it but man!!!! It's taken me a while and I have years to go
ME-48
WH-49
Married 27
2Beautiful daughters
DD 6/26/10 (he broke down & confessed)
DD#2 3/14/11 H in OW's car
TT 7/1/11 (NC broken, through emails)
In R
stilltrying2025 ( member #39145) posted at 4:29 AM on Sunday, May 19th, 2013
I want to inflict revenge on my WH so badly but I can't....I won't stoop to his level. I will, however, call him out on his indiscretions; like texting my best friend and telling her that he would take care of her with his tongue. Nope, not stooping to that level but I really want to! You do what you need to do to get through this crap but just remember, you have to live with it afterwards. Please don't think I'm mean or don't care; I just know that after the fact when you stoop to their level that you don't feel that good after. HUGS!!!!
Me: 38
WH: 43
DD: Thanksgiving Day, 2012
Status: Separated
nofool4u ( member #38509) posted at 5:33 PM on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013
I know WW is the one that hurt and betrayed me, and I am very deeply angry with her, but how can I help stop that need for revenge/retaliation?
Never be willing to dole out to an OM/OW that you wouldn't dole out to your cheating spouse.
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