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confused615 ( member #30826) posted at 6:46 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
They certainly do T.
But..for my *F*WH..his steps have been big ones.
It's true..when a wayward gets it..really and truly gets it..you,the BS,KNOW. You are no longer questioning everything and anything. The change in him is as noticeable as night and day.
We are going to be ok. I haven't really allowed myself to believe that until the last few days. But we're going to make it.
And..so with you and your *F* Mr T(lol 
). I've followed your posts....your husband "gets it" too.
BS(me)44
FWH 48
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
TxsT (original poster member #39996) posted at 6:50 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
He does, he really does. He is such a loving wonderful man and I am happy that we can build from our past mistakes.
i was sneaky this morning. I went into his briefcase and hid an anniversary card for him to open at work. I knew he hadn't had the time to go and get one for me yet but I couldn't let the opportunity to pass me by to surprise him with some unexpected love and kindness. The fact that I openly feel like my old self in this respect is making our 25 th anniversary everything I always wanted it to be but never thought I would feel!!!!
T 
Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!
painpaingoaway ( member #27196) posted at 8:00 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Loving the pics! More, more!
And LF, WHAT a gorgeous photo of you two and the church! Just beautiful!
D-Day June 2009
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 8:14 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Thank you, pain!
Here's one from a few years ago in Negril...
Considering what I had done with OM, I am truly, truly blessed with having a husband who overcame an extraordinary hurdle.
Yes, he still struggles with all of this infidelity crap I saddled us with, but what huge, huge leaps forward!
Together more than 57 years, Married 52 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
TxsT (original poster member #39996) posted at 11:28 PM on Tuesday, September 10th, 2013
Ok now I have to go and find one of me....sheesh
And now you even upped the anti and have swim attire on!!!!!!
Looking Forward I am so glad you were able to get beyond this terrible time we are all facing. You two look so sweet together. I never think that of many people who have ditched their first spouse for their second, it never really looks natural. You on the other hand look deeply meant for each other.
T
Me: BS 50
Hubby: WH 53
Together: 32 years
Married: 25 years 09/10/2013
2 boys: 23&21
Dday: 09/11/2012
A length: 4+ years (yes years)
status: Ongoing Reconciliation :o)
Through thick and thin we will survive but he gets only one shot at it!
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