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notperfect5 ( member #43330) posted at 8:10 PM on Tuesday, August 18th, 2015
I received an anonymous email regarding my wife attending a concert. As it turns out this was a serious break in NC that spurred me on to do a Polygraph when a lot of truth came pouring out.
Some people just don't feel comfortable telling a person their spouse is cheating on them.
However, I wouldn't put this level of evil, if it was just a malicious jibe, past people at this point.
I would take it an anonymous tip to double check things for a little bit. However, if they had something and wanted to help, wouldn't they have pointed to a specific time, place, or person? That is what my anonymous tipper did.
Me: 55 BH Her: 52 WW - Edith12
DDay 8/13 EA, fake R
Turned PA on 4/27/14 and fake R
PA during MC and my IC and her IC through 12/14
Polygraph on 4/30/15, TT 5/5/15.. TT on 10/4/15, 2nd Poly and TT 11/17/15
DD's 23, 21, 18, 15 DS
ColdWaffles ( new member #49021) posted at 8:45 PM on Tuesday, August 18th, 2015
This emailer I doubt is evil 
Seriously, probably either cluing you in or simply seriously hurt and damaged by past actions of your spouse, and trying to retaliate.
Either way, there is no news here, and you should ignore and block the addy.
Serial cheaters are a certain breed, tho.
Getting off the midlife crazy train. First stop..divorceland.
CW:49 LBS
stbx MCW: 49 MLC dirtbag
DD:19
DD:22
Abandoned us all. Has attacked us (via his attorney) for over a year.
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 8:57 PM on Tuesday, August 18th, 2015
T/J sorry in advance!!!
my message went into the FB OTHER inbox.... which most people don't even know they have..in fact, i only found out about the OTHER box after i sent the message...
I never knew about this. I just checked mine and found a message unrelated to A stuff from back in 2013. Omg! I feel so bad for having not known and not replied. Person must think I'm an ass!!!
So thank you!!! Thank you so much.
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
LoveActually ( member #31030) posted at 10:13 PM on Tuesday, August 18th, 2015
Likely sent by a hurt BS who is mad that the OW (your WW) "got away" with cheating (in the sense that you are still with her).
^^^Totally agree with this. The BS is probably trying to stir up things to hurt your wife. I did some similar stuff (not proud of it at all). Perhaps they are hoping to throw a wrench in your marriage or just make your wife miserable at the very least. Pain from betrayal can lead to some crazy behavior/thinking by all parties involved.
BS (Me) WS (Him) D-Day 5/29/09Married 15 yrs, together 20 yrs
AchillesHealed ( member #41805) posted at 1:44 PM on Wednesday, August 19th, 2015
Likely sent by a hurt BS who is mad that the OW (your WW) "got away" with cheating (in the sense that you are still with her).
I'm sure this is the case, too. If this person writing the note had any evidence, you would have gotten specific information. I would still report it to the police. If it continues to happen, it constitutes harassment/stalking and is against the law.
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