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Iwantmyglasses and Rollercoaster214-

It is against the guidelines to call out another member. Next time please pm a mod when you have an issue.

If this tale is true--which I doubt--both you and your wife need psychiatric help, and the children's welfare should be brought to the attention of the state.

I really can't believe you are still spending money you don't have at strip clubs. Why don't you look into getting another job to supplement your income instead of wasting it at bars?

How old are you and your wife?

The only one's I feel sorry for, in this entire scenario, is the children you and her have. Looks to me as though the KARMA bus is running over everyone. I wish you well.

Have you considered that you might be a sex addict? Your pre-occupation with strip clubs seems to be a big red flag waving in that direction.

I've gone back k and read some of your threads, and I have to ask:: Do you even LIKE your wife? Because I wouldn't guess it from the way you talk about her.

[This message edited by Roblox83525 at 9:29 AM, October 10th (Tuesday)]

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[This message edited by Roblox83525 at 9:29 AM, October 10th (Tuesday)]

Gosh Roblox,

I can't quite make out if you're a complete and utter wind-up merchant, or the worst sort of sociopath.

She is the true definition of codependence from what I've been reading here. Her happiness is based on what other people do or react to her, not within herself. I'm insecure myself but even I'm starting to identify that about us.

You indicate that you've treated your wife APPALLINGLY, and are now whining about her apparently bat-shit-crazy responses.

What is it - truthfully - that you are seeking from this Site?

MOB

While her behavior is unhealthy, I'd like to remind all of us that this woman continues to have ddays. She has an extremely unremorseful, still cheating, abusive WS. Id like for us all to remember that we may not have behaved in a healthy manner on dday. This woman continues to be abused. She's acting out. She's drowning in her pain. And he compares her to the OW..the strippers..who give him blow jobs..and tells her they're better than her. He takes money and gets blow jobs in the back rooms of strip clubs. Money that was meant to buy food for the kids. He makes fun of her with these OW. His family have threatened to take her children if she files for divorce.

This story may be embellished some. But I remember when his wife posted here. So I do believe he's not a fake.

OP..you abuse your wife, horribly. You neglect your children. And you take zero responsibility for your actions. You clearly are not here for advice. You're here to bash your wife. You thought,since she had been banned,that you would find people here that would laugh at her with you. Instead, you've caused people to sympathize with her.

[This message edited by HellFire at 9:35 AM, October 8th (Sunday)]

Double post

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Agree with Hellfire 1000%.

MidnightRun-

It is against the guidelines to call out another member. Next time please pm a mod when you have an issue.

Whats your goal in sharing this?

Your wife's actions are a direct result of your actions. YOU did this to her and now you're mad at her because she's not handling this well at all. Her questioning why she isn't good enough for you should be telling you what you've done to her self esteem. News flash! You don't get to tell her how to feel. And she will never "get over it and move on" while you are still acting out and throwing this kind of shit at her. Clearly, she is bewildered and in pain. Oh, and something else...she can talk on the phone to whoever she wants about your life because you've made this her story, too.

I still think you sound like you are a sex addict, but even if you aren't, you clearly need some serious help. "Normal" people don't inflict this uncaring kind of pain on other people.

I really feel for your wife and I hope you both find the help you need so badly. You are hurting your innocent kids, too, even if you don't think you are. You two are their model of marriage.

This is the most dysfunctional relationship I've read about in a good long while.

Yes what I did was wrong, but at least I didn't force her to watch it.

I just can't stop laughing at this. Good luck Rob.

Let's see, you keep going to strip clubs and getting lap dances in the champagne room with "Kelly". Maybe the only way your wife thinks she can get your damn attention is by becoming a "Kelly". You're both dysfunctional but it looks like you're getting what you give so I'd think you'd be happier about it.

You're also a hypocrite. Hope you're kids don't starve while you're spending family money on strippers. I can only hope one of your neighbors notices and invites CPS to come help you figure out your priorities.

P.S. Don't worry about responding. I won't be back to this thread. There are people here actually looking for help. I'm not sure what you're looking for but it doesn't seem to be help given that you haven't absorbed anything that's been said by anyone with sense.

[This message edited by Tearsoflove at 3:56 PM, October 8th (Sunday)]