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Tren0R201 ( member #39633) posted at 8:36 PM on Friday, June 29th, 2018
So you're plan B and your wife is only tolerating being with you?
Sheesh, that's an awful life to lead, but to each their own I guess, if you can live with that then more power to you.
longsadstory1952 ( member #29048) posted at 1:02 AM on Saturday, June 30th, 2018
You know, I don't think you have said a thing about what your wife is telling you. Kind of hard to advise with only half the story. Is she saying one thing and acting another?
Is she staying for the kids? Is she begging you?
Whose idea was it to end the separation?
What consequences have you enacted? Is she still openly pining?
Maybe you need to 180 and look at life after you weigh your options
Anyway, good luck with this. Looks like you are gonna need good luck. Cuz you wife doesn't seem to be helping things
TimSC ( member #58844) posted at 7:49 AM on Saturday, June 30th, 2018
You cannot save a marriage alone - it takes two. From what you say about your wife she is not committed. She does not want to be married to you.
The affair is still on, even if it is just in her mind, but I would bet they are still communicating.
It is over - you just will not admit it to yourself.
TimSC ( member #58844) posted at 7:50 AM on Saturday, June 30th, 2018
You cannot save a marriage alone - it takes two. From what you say about your wife she is not committed. She does not want to be married to you.
The affair is still on, even if it is just in her mind, but I would bet they are still communicating.
It is over - you just will not admit it to yourself.
Sknippen ( member #59211) posted at 12:59 PM on Saturday, June 30th, 2018
Hello i am sorry for you and the kids but it seems you're wife doesnt love you anymore. She has accepted plan B currently, what happens i the futufe you will always stay plan B until she finds a new A plan. If you wan't to reconcile she has to take the efforts, not you. Don't try to hold on on something that is already lost.
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