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survrus ( member #67698) posted at 11:22 PM on Wednesday, January 16th, 2019
Thought about tattooing the OMs face, perhaps a brand would be more appropriate.
Hurtandinhell (original poster new member #66098) posted at 11:05 AM on Thursday, January 17th, 2019
So many good ideas here, thanks to all! Sorry to the one that this is a trigger for, I really am. I hadn't considered that a possibility when I posted it 
Me: BS 46
Him: WS 46
Together 29 years, married 16.. DD July 27, 2018
Shehawk ( member #68741) posted at 3:58 AM on Thursday, January 31st, 2019
I currently have no ink. But I am thinking of getting an inner forearm script tattoo...Maybe one that says integrity.
Maybe I am tired of hiding my pain. Might as well get it out in the open.
"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!
Coreofsteel ( member #62501) posted at 6:56 AM on Thursday, January 31st, 2019
I have one tattoo. Sadly it was a gift from WEx. He watched me get it done whilst carrying on relationships with other women. What a sick power trip that must have been. Anyway, I'm thinking of making it watercolour or changing it, although I do like it. It just needs to be different.
ME: BS. Together with wayward spouse for 4 years. D-Day Jan 24, 2018. D-Day #2 Feb 5, 2018. D-day #3 from numerous other people, March 15. D-day #4 April 9, sex with more people and a hooker. NO future.
Walkingthewire ( member #69084) posted at 10:46 PM on Thursday, January 31st, 2019
I already have several. WH and I have matching kanji for ‘love’ we got them done in 2008. So long before his A. All of my tattoos have a significant meaning to me. I have Beatles lyrics on my right wrist and I’m thinking about doing my left. Just don’t know don’t know what yet.
WH and I made a deal a long time ago. I get one, then he does. He wants my initial on his ring finger.
Married 18 yearsBS (me) 37WH 38. 13year old boy, 9 year old girl (Idiopathic Pulmonary Hemosiderosis)A Sept 2018 (while he was overseas)D-Day Dec 9 2018Working towards R
TICKED OFF ( member #8291) posted at 1:55 AM on Friday, February 1st, 2019
Yes, I got a tattoo shortly after. It's on my ankle. It has a 4 symbols for my 4 kids. H is nowhere to be found on my tattoo.
sandbar ( new member #69605) posted at 4:11 PM on Friday, February 1st, 2019
Yes. It's a word that I need to hear and repeat to myself on a daily basis. I put it on my foot where i can look down and see it whenever I need it, but hide it too.
Funny, when my WH saw it he said "Well, that's a big FU to our marriage." 
Annnnddd....what did his actions say about our marriage? 
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