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Dismayed2012 ( member #49151) posted at 9:25 PM on Monday, February 17th, 2020
What Beachwalker said: "...she just got really good at being sneaky. That is what will most likely happen,"
Take heed Mountain. She's a serial cheater. It's very, very seldom that they change their stripes. All cheaters are very convincing when they cry and say they want to change but when the rubber meets the road, they're not willing to deny themselves long term. She'll be back at it after the dust settles and you get comfortable again. I'm sorry. I do wish the best for you.
Infidelity sucks. Freedom rocks.
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 10:46 AM on Tuesday, February 18th, 2020
Mountain. Sorry you are here.
I once asked my very fabulous therapist this question.
I asked him why so many young women choose to just sleep around with guys and have so many ONS. He says he didn’t know the answer but they all start showing up (for therapy) in their 30s and 40s unhappy, broken or failed marriage or relationships and just a hot mess. At least the ones trying to change their lives show up to get help.
Everyone has problems. Not everyone uses their problems as an excuse to cheat.
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
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