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Felix12306 (original poster member #78827) posted at 2:07 PM on Monday, May 31st, 2021
Lifestoshort I don't know that he's lying. I have talked to OW, she says it was not physical just a friendship, And she did admit that he cheated in the sense that it was an emotional sense but that he was faithful in the physical sense.
BS Together for 15 years, married for 10 on D-Day. D-day 1/28/21, 44-day affair. D-Day that is was physical 6/18/21.
Robert22205https ( member #65547) posted at 3:49 PM on Monday, May 31st, 2021
Why do you believe the OW? She has an incentive to cover up the fact that she's complicit in adultery or dated a married man.
Just friends do not talk on the phone and text as much as they did in 47 days. The texting was all day while he was at work with the occasional phone call and in the evenings because I work overnight there would be phone calls that were up to 7 hours long. And then the 6 Hangouts. I'm not stupid.
Your husband had no right to sneak around doing what he did and then ask you to trust him (that there was no sex, including kissing or touching).
It's unfair and incredibly cruel to you.
He should be doing whatever it takes to rebuild your trust (IC, polygraph).
With respect to him having enough people telling him what to do, clearly he needs direction. Look what a mess he created thinking for himself.
Felix12306 (original poster member #78827) posted at 2:26 AM on Tuesday, June 1st, 2021
Robert, I don't believe her. I believe that she is a liar because she told me that she thought I knew about their friendship when he told her from the beginning I didn't know because I would be mad. So she's a liar and of course trying to save face that's why I'm so confused on what to think.
BS Together for 15 years, married for 10 on D-Day. D-day 1/28/21, 44-day affair. D-Day that is was physical 6/18/21.
Napickle ( new member #78799) posted at 5:39 AM on Thursday, June 3rd, 2021
Felt like I was reading my own story😢. My H had a long term affair with a coworker always said it was a texting friend only relationship. OW and H both Never admitted to seeing or sleeping together. Swept under the rug took over 3 years for me to get “happy again” 4 months ago found out H was having affair this time only for the sex, now he has been forthcoming about both affairs answering everything I ask. I wish I would have faced things head on and not tolerated 1/2 truths. In someways we try to hold on to that small sliver if they don’t admit it maybe we are just “Crazy”
I’m so sorry you are dealing with this crap 
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