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Altered Now ( member #15274) posted at 9:44 PM on Saturday, September 4th, 2010
I am inspired by your strength and selflessness.
That last workshop H & I did together was one on writing Love Letters.
Please accept my 'letter', sending love, hope and all things that will embrace you.
And know that 'Altered Now' prays with you.
trying to smile ( member #9683) posted at 12:30 AM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
(((((uni)))))
you are showing such amazing grace at such a monumentally difficult time uni, I am in awe.
I am sending angels to you and your H to help you carry the burden. I'm sure you've already asked for their help but I thought I would too.
Holding you and your family in my heart and my thoughts.
tts 
Good Women.
May we know them,
May we be them,
May we raise them.
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"so when he finally showed his true colours they proved to be a startling shade of turd".
unicornsearcher ( member #912) posted at 11:57 AM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
Her service is in a few hours & I can't sleep. Today will be a very challenging day. 
11/02 Busted WH 4+ cheating yrs, 11/06 Busted [Month Long Lustfest]. 2/1/08 admits false version of betrayals, so no full disclosure / "whole truth" yet. '09 Together, great work in progress. '12 Still gladly united.
dreamlife ( member #8142) posted at 12:17 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
I am so sorry, Uni, and as a mother who also has had to endure this unspeakable pain, I understand.
We will surround you with our love and strength...please lean on us.
And, you may call or e-mail me at ANY time as well, day or night.
Lastly, you may not feel this especially in the coming days, but you will survive this...though you may not feel that you can or will.
I love you, sweetie.
~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~
"He called me a bitch.
I called him an ambulance."
Linda H.)
kdny ( member #760) posted at 1:20 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
(((Uni and family)))
Thinking of you today and sending strength and comfort.
I know it will be a very hard day for you all.
Whether we remain ash or become phoenix is up to us.
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Sometimes the fine line between a nervous breakdown and knowing things will be okay is a pair of furry pants~unfound
Hope24 ( member #9344) posted at 1:22 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
Thinking of you, Uni.
She packed up her potential and all she had learned and headed out to change a few things.
iwantamiracle ( member #22812) posted at 2:33 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
(((((uni)))))
sending prayers that god may hold you in his embrace today, and may he hold you up......
My life is finally my own!!
I am happy and I am at peace!
I survived the worst pain I have ever known!!
beadmaggie ( member #11925) posted at 2:49 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
(((((Uni))))) I'm keeping you & your family in my thoughts today. I know how hard this is.
Me - BS, 55
Him - FWH, 55
Married 32 yrs, 2 children
D-day #1 - Dec. 14, 2000 (OW#1 - "friend with benefits")
D-day #2 - May 31, 2005 (OW#2 - EA/PA)
D-day #3 - Sept 19, 2005 (OW#2)
R'ed
HeCheats ( member #27278) posted at 3:17 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
((((((((Uni & family))))))))
Oh, I am so sorry for your loss.
You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, HC
A lying, cheating husband that leaves is God's way of saving a good woman from a complete asshole while she still has time to live her life!!! - A wise SIer
Me-BW 43
Him-WZ (that's Zombie)51
DD23, DS16
Dday 1 10/28/09
Dday 2 11/5/09
Sapphire ( member #22517) posted at 3:43 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
Thinking of you and your family and sending you strength to get through the day.
Me- BS 49
Him- WH 51
D Day 3/08
Divorced 10/10
Pentup ( member #20563) posted at 4:38 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
Me- BS
Him- FWS (I hope- F)
ob-la-de ( member #23735) posted at 4:56 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
Uni and hubby, I wish I had some words that could take away your pain and sorrow. I have been and will continue to keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. Peace be with you.
Ob
looking forward ( member #25238) posted at 4:56 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
Dear Uni & Family,
You are in my prayers today and, at this morning's church service, I requested a special prayer for your DD. Know that she is in God's loving arms and is surrounded by great love.
~ lf
Together more than 58 years, Married 53 years. Sober since 2009. "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself." (The Wizard of Oz)
JustDone ( member #9742) posted at 5:10 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
((((uni))))
I've been reading & rereading the quotes you have listed on your User Profile page, and they are all wonderful, especially this one for today:
You have to accept whatever comes and the only important thing is that you meet it with courage and with the best that you have to give.
Eleanor Roosevelt
Uni, you have met what happened this week with grace and love and courage.
Wishing you strength and fortitude today and in the time to come...
We are here for you,
-JD
Madhatter
Forgiveness is giving up the possibility of a better past.
lemony.2008 ( member #20125) posted at 6:04 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
(((((unicornsearcher)))))
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers...I'm so sorry for your loss...
Feel the feelings and drop the story. - Pema Chodron
Crushed1 ( member #6449) posted at 6:23 PM on Sunday, September 5th, 2010
((((((Uni & family)))))) Keeping you in prayer.
I lost my mother 30 years ago. Someone gave me a card with the following poem which I want to share with you.
She Is Just Away
I cannot say, and I will not say
That she is dead, she is just away!
With a Cheery Smile and a wave of the hand
She has wandered into an unknown land.
And left us dreaming how very fair
It needs must be since she lingers there,
And you - oh you, who the wildest yearn
For the old-time step and the glad return.
Think of her fairing on, as dear
In the love of there, as the love of here,
Think of her still as the same, I say.
she is not dead - she is just away.
- James Whitcomb Riley
(((((Uni)))))
~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH
runoverbytruck ( member #11752) posted at 3:41 AM on Monday, September 6th, 2010
((((((((((((Uni)))))))))))))
Just sending more love...
LTA BS
If you think the grass is greener on the other side, it's because it's fertilized with bullshit.
The best protection a woman can have is courage.~Elizabeth Cady Stanton
tryingtwo ( member #19717) posted at 3:54 AM on Monday, September 6th, 2010
You reached out to me when I came to SI. I didn't forget that.
I reach out to you now. May my prayers help you in some small way. May you hold the love for your daughter so very close to you today. May you no be strong, bag that, you be a mom. A grieving mother today and just know that there is some random Oregon woman thinking of you today, reaching out to you.
((((((((unicornsearcher))))))))
Innocent people generally want to get to the bottom of things. Guilty people usually want the discussion to be over as soon as possible.
Inchoate ( member #9065) posted at 4:29 AM on Monday, September 6th, 2010
Oh no. Oh, I am so sorry.
Former Wayward Ninja, recovered
"The shadows tell us where the light is" (my DD@3)
"Growing up is hard. If it were easy, everyone would do it." (Agliarept)
iwantamiracle ( member #22812) posted at 5:30 AM on Monday, September 6th, 2010
i cannot imagine what your day has been like for you...
thinking of you with so much sadness for your loss...
(((uni)))
My life is finally my own!!
I am happy and I am at peace!
I survived the worst pain I have ever known!!
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