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tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 8:00 PM on Monday, September 30th, 2013
Sending healing MOJO, and strength your way.
((((and strength))))
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
sunandmoon ( member #10180) posted at 2:59 PM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013
(((Lighthouse)))
Prayers and posititve thoughts to you and your loved ones. I hope you heal quickly and kick cancers butt!!
sunandmoon
She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 3:33 PM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013
((Lighthouse))
Sending healing mojo your way sweetie! You are not alone! We are all here for you!
[This message edited by She11ybeanz at 9:34 AM, October 1st (Tuesday)]
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 3:41 PM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013
Sending you stregth. I have been where you are at. they cut thru all my tendons to the bone to get it all out of my leg. So far I have been good that was about 9 years ago. I need to go back and get checked. Mine looked like a freckle so I get wired when I see a strange one.
You will be sore but it is all so worth it. Many prayers to you.
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 4:29 PM on Tuesday, October 1st, 2013
Continued prayers, Lighthouse.
*hugs* too.
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
Lighthouse Heart (original poster member #8899) posted at 2:16 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013
Thank you for continued hugs, prayers and good thoughts.
The trip to see my father and his wife went surprisingly well considering.
Of course they are concerned, but it's a big relief for me that they now know and will continue to be updated as I move forward in whatever process is coming my way. It means that I can now widen my support group and not feel limited in who I can tell. It takes an army to fight and I'm gathering my troops.
I had an ultrasound yesterday so the readioligist surgeon knows what he's dealing with next week. They have booked both a CT and ultrasound for the abdominal biopsies now scheduled for next Wednesday - I guess they will decide which gives them a better image to guide them to the area.
More blood work for the vampires before then...why don't they listen when I tell them to go for the left arm as the viens are better? lol
I've got my morning mantra as my new sig line and I have a friend who's self appointed posiiton on my team is to make me laugh everyday.
Some of my co-workers gathered in my office yesterday and gave me a cozy fleece jacket - for when I feel cold, alone and need a hug and they are not with me...the also gave me a cactus - for when the non supportive, unempathetic folks invaded my space...I'm to politely tell them they are not being helpful and that I'd rather hug my cactus
I giggle looking at it and am just waiting to use the line lol.
I'm finding something in every day for now.
I release the past so I am free to fight for my future unencumbered.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 2:29 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013
(((LH)))
I LOVE the cactus idea! It sounds like you have a great attitude and a wonderful support system! Sending healing mojo your way!
metamorphisis ( member #12041) posted at 3:09 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013
Sending love and strength to you Lighthouse Heart
Go softly my sweet friend. You will always be a part of who I am.
willow60 ( member #17243) posted at 5:03 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013
((((Lighthouse,))))
Lots of prayers, strength and mojo going out to you.
Sometimes it lasts in love but sometimes it hurts instead....Adele
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 5:35 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013
(((Lighthouse Heart))))
Sending you lots of light.
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
click4it ( member #209) posted at 5:45 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013
(((((light)))))
You have an incredibly positive attitude and have such strength. I'm glad you have a lot of supportive people in your life to help you navigate through this hurdle. we are all pulling for you. Sending lots of hugs, strength and positive vibes.
Me: 45
Two boys: 20 and 17
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01
Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 6:21 AM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013
More hugs and strength, LH. Your positive attitude is one of your most valuable assets.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
tushnurse ( member #21101) posted at 2:25 PM on Wednesday, October 2nd, 2013
(((LH)))
You are going into this with the best attitude you can have, and sister it will make a difference.
You are gathering your army, you have that big strong weapon at the ready, humor, and you have a sense of peace knowing that you have told your dad.
I pray you have better knews, and that you continue to have strength and courage.
Me: FBSHim: FWSKids: 23 & 27 Married for 32 years now, was 16 at the time.D-Day Sept 26 2008R'd in about 2 years. Old Vet now.
Lighthouse Heart (original poster member #8899) posted at 2:17 AM on Saturday, October 5th, 2013
Well, I made it through the week! lol No small feat as work was busy and really didn't have time to think about things too much.
My laugh a day has been doing just that. Haven't had to hug the cactus yet which is very good news.
Relaxing with a glass or two of red later and then tomorrow picking up my kitty - who I haven't seen since I moved back in August. She's coming to live with her mama
Hopefully the sun is out this weekend and I can get out for some picture taking too.
Thanks everyone - hope you enjoy your weekend.
I release the past so I am free to fight for my future unencumbered.
positively4thst ( member #23998) posted at 7:02 PM on Sunday, October 6th, 2013
Hi Lighthouse!
Glad to hear you are keeping a positive attitude! Please keep us updated, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Hope you got out to enjoy the beautiful weather and snap some photos!
Lighthouse Heart (original poster member #8899) posted at 4:55 AM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
Abdominal biopsy was this morning - quick and painless. A bit of tenderness now - like I did crunches on one side only lol.
Very surprised at the technique - they went through the "structures" in the way (liver and pancreas) to get to the nodes for the biospy
They used ultrasound to guide and monitored a couple of times with the CT.
Only light sedation and local for the insertion site. I was out by 9 and released at 10...and getting a mocha by 10:05 lol - lord I missed my coffee in the morning.
Having my kitty back has been wonderful
She was a bit scared the first afternoon but that evening she remembered our old bedtime routine and was her usual sucky self for the pets and chin scratches. She's been getting more playful and less skitterish each day.
A bit of a wait now for results but lots to keep me busy. Plenty of family and folks sending support and love - it's all felt.
Thank you
I release the past so I am free to fight for my future unencumbered.
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 4:58 AM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
(((LH)))
hexed ( member #19258) posted at 5:03 AM on Thursday, October 10th, 2013
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 5:14 AM on Friday, October 11th, 2013
((Hugs)) keep us updated!
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
NWfleur ( member #35874) posted at 9:05 AM on Saturday, October 12th, 2013
(((Lighthouse)))
My dad had one on his back removed years ago. He caught it early so they were able to remove it with clean margins and no spreading.
My cousin had one on her hip in her early 30's...which she let go for a long time unfortunately and she's had to go through various treatments over the years. The key with melanoma is early detection which is sounds like is the case for you.
Hope you are surrounding yourself with lots of love and support...
Me BS (39)
Him WS (36)
2 DS
M: 9 years (together 13)
DD: 4/10/2012
(Separated since 12/11...affair began ??!!)
Divorced!!!
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