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hurtsds ( member #18856) posted at 2:42 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Used to, don't anymore
64fleet ( member #18710) posted at 2:48 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
I don't even believe in love anymore.
ImNellNow ( member #28753) posted at 4:21 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Soulmate implies that your soul is incomplete without it's other half. Your soul is not a sock. It's complete unto itself and it's your job to nurture it with loving kindness, philanthropy and spirituality.
Is what I says.
BS & D
Drinking wine and thinking bliss is on the other side of this.
Siamo Uno ( member #993) posted at 6:30 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
I used to believe in soulmates. I am no longer that naive. And as for love? I am starting not to believe in love anymore either.
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[This message edited by Siamo Uno at 12:31 PM, September 8th (Wednesday)]
"Thou ought to be nice, even to superstition, in keeping thy promises, and therefore equally cautious in making them."
TheHardWay ( member #4342) posted at 6:34 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
I do, she is my sister.
Other then that, nope.
I am remarried to my love partner - we are partners in life and love - we are friends first, each other support systems, etc., blah, blah, blah.
BUT
I would live and survive and thrive without him (sadly).
I would be lost forever without my sister.
"Id like to find your inner child and kick its little ass"
Danu ( member #16811) posted at 5:39 PM on Friday, September 10th, 2010
See my tagline...
A soulmate is the one who provides the framework for identifying and getting past the crap that keeps us small and imprisoned.
Sometimes the guy who cuts you off in traffic when you're late for a job interview is your soulmate... for 10 seconds.
Sometimes we have a soulmate who challenges us gently... thus we can stay together for a long time, or a life time.
That's just my take on it.
"... your soulmate is the person that pushes your buttons, pisses you off on a regular basis, and makes you face your shit" Madonna
so-crushed ( member #29137) posted at 3:27 AM on Saturday, September 11th, 2010
Soulmates... every time I hear or see this word, I visualize the card WH had stashed away to give OW#1.
I used to believe in the word, but that was a long time ago.
Just my opinion.
Me - BS, 50's
Him - WH, 50's
Married 20+ years
D-Day #2 3/7/17
D-Day, 5/29/10 -found out about 2 PA's:
(1st A - EA/PA, 1998-2003(??) and 2nd A - PA, 2003-2004(??) )
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