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t/j

GAHHHH could Gwynyth Paltrow BE any more freaking obnoxious?

Or pretentious? I loathe Gwynyth Paltrow. Glad to see it isn't just me, jana. That is all.

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This is so triggery for me - ha. OW actually has A VIDEO ONLINE ABOUT HER COMPLETELY HAIRLESS STATUS so that she could get a discount on said hair removal. I said in my other thread that I couldn't believe anyone could be such a whore as to screw my H right as they were getting married but...there you have it. I'm not sure what type of person goes online to talk about how they removed hair *everywhere*.

That said, I keep it very trim or shaved. I just like it that way. WH did as well. Maybe he saw her video and that was the attraction. I mean, she doesn't even have to maintain like I do!

On topic? Don't do anything you don't want to do for HIM. I agree with everyone else.

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@Greg

Don't mean to t/j but what if the tables were turned. WW instead of WH. And its the BH (not WH) asking (not demanded, just asked) the WW (not BW) to shave. To do something special just for him or something the BH thinks might be sexy. Does that change the analysis?

^^Yes, this would change things for me. I am willing to do things for my husband because he finds them sexy. I am open to that. I would hope he would be the same with me.

The difference is that is seemed the OP was being compared to the AP who were shaved bald and was told that 'everyone' does that now.

^^This is not the reason to do anything.

Now if my WH asked me to do something I found offensive or repulsive, I reserve the right to say no. End of story and request. I would do the same the other way around.

Late to respond but just remembered when WH decided to shave "everything" bald when we were in the beginning stages of R & shortly after I had shaved my kitty bald. The first time or two we were together during HB, it felt new, different & ^ good. Then his hair started to grow back in, the discomfort from the stubble/re-growth made condoms a "must" for a good week+! I know we probably should have been using protection anyway, just gave us a reason to use a condom until some hair grew back around his parts:) Moral of the story for WH, trim but don't shave your penis because it was painful once the "five o'cock shadow phase began! Lol Jamie

Oh my gosh it's back!

Well, I just want to say thanks for this thread.

I will honestly say that I have been one of those people who have wondered why a man would like this...and wondered if it was a bit icky that he would want his partner's nether region to look like a young girls.

I still don't understand the attraction, but then again, I'm not attracted to them!

But it is helpful to hear about so many who choose to scape in this fashion, and that it doesn't indicate some sort of deviant ulterior motives!