: n. Me and my partner are on a break at the moment. He really wants our relationship to work and says that it’s on my terms. He seems to be cooperating. It has been 3 weeks since dday, and all I’ve been doing is asking questions and investigating - he has been answering, but it has taken a lot of evidence to get to truth - which I worry about . When I spoke to the baby mum she shared a lot (but expected). She didn’t confirm much about the A - but spoke alot about their relationship and history. My partner was upset that I called them.
I was adviced not to call the other woman, but I think it gave me information to use whilst getting some truth out of him.
Im now going through a phase where I am obsessing over the other woman and I keep going to her socials. I know I’m hurting myself more, but this week her socials revealed that they met up with the kids and he didn’t tell me.
I feel betrayed all over again because I now wonder what is really going on between them that he can’t tell me his plans. And they took a cosy family picture.
We are on a break and we will do some gentle reflection tasks individually over the next 4 weeks.
I guess I just want peoples experiences with this.
