Smokey15 (original poster new member #87112) posted at 10:20 PM on Saturday, June 13th, 2026
Hi I'm in the UK and starting the process of mediation and then divorce. Found out 15 weeks ago husband was having an affair (whilst I was 12 weeks pregnant and we have a 3 year old). He was telling me he wanted to make things work again but then 2 weeks ago I found out he has been continuing to see the affair partner. So that's when I made the decision we are over for good. I am now 27 weeks pregnant and had my mediation assessment yesterday. It is all just so overwhelming and I can't get my head around how it is all going to work with the house etc when I am going to be giving birth in a few months time. I don't really have a question as such just looking for solidarity as I am finding myself lying here in bed crying again.
