Is about protecting his ego, the ego who allowed him to become a cheater, at the price of your blood.
Trickle truths are not a remorse driven confession so you can see in full what the person at your side is capable of, and kept hidden for, you.
They are protecting the betrayal, their AP, their ego.
While you die inside.
This is a teller for you, eye opener hopefully:
He didn’t change, he is not reformed, he is ashamed, not remurseful.
You aren’t being love once again. You are being managed.
His ego and the external validation of his image, are worth more to him than you. And consider that the worth of that stuff is next to zero.
He can put you below that. Convinced you will never find out, and he can play you anytime.
I don’t like to say it like this, but you probably feel it, since unlike your wayward I do respect your intelligence and sensitivity as a human being.
Now the thing is on you.
I hope you put yourself first and accept who this person truly his, who he chose to still be, rather than hoping you can love him out of being a cheater.
Nobody can.
But you sure can reclaim yourself fully and like you deserve, sister.
[This message edited by BackfromtheStorm at 12:43 PM, Tuesday, October 6th]
