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somanyyears ( member #26970) posted at 3:32 PM on Sunday, April 11th, 2010
..i'm not telling..it only reminds me that i'm 1 year closer to the end ..all those 'happy birthdays' now have a big fat ??? question mark behind them..
..she must have questioned herself on those days, saying
'if he really knew what i know, it would kill him, it would crush him, he would never have another 'happy day'..why do i keep doing this? ..how can i sing 'happy birthday' to this man knowing what i'm doing with his bf..
..oh well..i'll try not to think about that..i wonder what he wished for when he blew out his candles ???
..so now i'm wondering what WW was wishing for on all of her birthdays????
..when she blew out her candles..???
..you see now why birthdays really suck..!!
smy..so many birthdays!?
trust no other human- love only your pets. Reconciled I think! Me 77 Her 74 Married 52 yrs. 18 yr LTA with bff/lawyer. Little fucker died at 57.Brain tumour!
sammie ( member #7785) posted at 2:10 PM on Thursday, April 15th, 2010
If someone loves you, it should feel like they love you.
Never give more of yourself than you are getting back.
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places." ~Ernest Hemingway
frustrated4ever ( member #28233) posted at 2:49 AM on Friday, April 16th, 2010
Now to whom should I turn, now that it's you who hurt me
worried_lady ( member #27605) posted at 3:24 AM on Friday, April 16th, 2010
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over it became a butterfly.
just_sad ( member #19237) posted at 7:09 PM on Monday, April 19th, 2010
Just_sad
Tomorrow, April 20th
Thanks for asking! 
Married: 20 years now...
Reconciling and happy about that most of the time. The man I knew is back to being himself!
Follow your heart and you won't get lost. - Brett Dennen
Sdanni64 ( member #27722) posted at 1:39 AM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2010
January 18th....and I know that my stbxWH sent the day...and possibly the night with OW...since I was out of town on a business trip....and she is a teacher (1/18 this year was MLK day)so she did not have to work.
Makes me want to change my birthday 
Me: BS 46 Him: stbxWH 42
Married since 8/05
D day: 2/22/10
No R..he is living w/MOW
D filed 4/16/10
A pearl is a beautiful thing that is produced by an injured life.....maybe from my wounds, from my injuries, I will produce a "pearl"
mamacita ( member #25896) posted at 11:12 PM on Tuesday, April 20th, 2010
Me: BW 54
Him: repentant WH 45
Her: Queen Skank MOW 30 something
Married 17 years, 4 kids,
DDay 4-20-2009
R'ing -doing great!
Happiness is what you make it, always was, always will be.
cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 4:13 PM on Tuesday, April 27th, 2010
Updated to this point. Next update will be the end of May
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
cantwait ( member #27106) posted at 10:41 PM on Saturday, May 1st, 2010
me: BW 41
him: STBX 43
4 beautiful kids who didn't deserve any of this!
hurting2much ( member #25643) posted at 11:15 AM on Tuesday, May 4th, 2010
LDT3 ( member #21185) posted at 12:00 PM on Monday, May 10th, 2010
Me (BS) 38
Him (WS) 40
3 children
Married 14 years
Together 17 years
DD 10-03-08
2ND DD 09-10-09
Divorced February 2011
"If he is dumb enough to walk away, then be smart enough to let him"
MixedUpMess ( member #15256) posted at 2:32 PM on Tuesday, May 11th, 2010
D-Day: 5-28-2007
Married: 26 years
Me (BS): 48 (Cancer survivor!)
Him (WS)(Alcoholic): 48
DD: 17
False R for 1.5 yrs+
He moved out 5/10. In limbo.
I was sad because I had no shoes. Then I met a man who had no feet.
twicedestroyed ( member #28197) posted at 4:56 PM on Sunday, May 23rd, 2010
August 9
thanks for doing this
Me-BS 35
Him-(F)WS 38
DDay 5/09 with TT all month after 7 years of marriage
3 month EA/PA with MOW (co-worker) while I was pregnant and during/after her birth/death
Living children, 4...currently 17 (mine/his step daughter), 8, 6, 3 (product of HB)
ktm250mx ( member #11012) posted at 6:16 AM on Friday, June 4th, 2010
Me: BS Him: FWS
DDay: 3/06, Divorced: 9/06, Reconciled: 3/09
"When going through hell--don't stop"
"The longest journey is from the head to the heart"
"Progress, not perfection"
burnttoacrisp ( member #27920) posted at 7:40 PM on Saturday, June 5th, 2010
I'm late to the game, however, it's today, June 5.
I won't expect a cake this year, however, it will be a great pick-me-up next year!!
cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 2:25 PM on Monday, June 7th, 2010
Updated to this point. Next update will be the beginning of July.
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
shattered123 ( member #27843) posted at 8:10 PM on Thursday, June 10th, 2010
Emerald76 ( new member #28751) posted at 2:18 PM on Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010
D-Day - 04/17/2010
Married 16 years
Divorced 11-18-2010
3 sons
cantlivewithouth (original poster member #11939) posted at 3:59 PM on Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010
Updated to here. Next update will be the end of July beginning of August.
Married a truly wonderful and loving man Sept. 19, 2010. Not only survived, but thrived.
My new mantra: Argue Your Limitations.
luvbug0915 ( member #22934) posted at 5:22 PM on Saturday, June 26th, 2010
ETA: Cause I'm a goober and I didn't realize I was already on the list. 
[This message edited by luvbug0915 at 11:24 AM, June 26th (Saturday)]
"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle
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