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icansurvive ( member #29166) posted at 10:17 PM on Friday, August 6th, 2010
My birthday is Septemeber 5th
Me- BS 51
WH - 54
Together 11 years
Married 6
Kids - 4 grown adults (2 mine, 2 his)
Grandkids 3 with another one on the way
fairyfriend ( member #11208) posted at 10:24 PM on Friday, August 6th, 2010
DDay 1--Feb 99
Crappy IC, false R--spring 1999
A ended around April, 2003
DDay 2--September 26, 2004
DDay 3--September 26, 2005 when I found out the REST of the truth
8/8/09--Doing very well due to hard work on my and H's part
lisaloo ( member #20082) posted at 2:16 AM on Saturday, August 7th, 2010
looks like I am the first new year's eve baby on SI (or on the list anyhow)...put me down as Dec. 31st!
Me: 33 STBXH: 34 DD: 8
D Day (EA): 6-19-08
D Day #2 (SA): 7-5-10
D Day #3 (EA): 11-8-13
WH moved out: 11-18-13
Moved BACK IN (because the lawyer told him to): 11/29/13.
Filed for Divorce: 12-9-13
In house separation...fun, fun, fun.
Laura28 ( member #28997) posted at 10:04 PM on Tuesday, August 17th, 2010
Hi
It's my birthday today. I'm 54. We are trying to R and for the first time in years he gave me some nice presents.
But I'm just so sad!
Married 42yrs Me BW 68Yrs Him F?WH 70yrs OWzero 1988 EA?/PA? Gaslighted. Dday May 28 2010. OW1 1994(6mths PA, EA 16+ years). OW2 2002(8yrs PA). OW3 2009(1Yr PA). Others?? Status: Not Divorcing..but.."You can't unfuck 'em"
ExhaustedOne ( member #23835) posted at 4:12 PM on Saturday, August 21st, 2010
My Birthday is June 16th. Dad always said I was his fathers day daughter LOL
Selfishness is the greatest curse of the human race...William Ewart Gladstone
BrokenAngelWings ( member #28790) posted at 4:18 PM on Saturday, August 21st, 2010
My birthday is January 10th :)
BW (me) 43
WH 42
DD13, DS11, DD8, DS5
Married 22 years
D-Day 1 3/15/10 (denial)
D-Day 2 5/11/10
D-Day 3 6/8/10 (TT)
1-week OEA
1-1/2 yr. PA
I didn't do it, I just have to get through it.
tsol25 ( member #29461) posted at 4:05 PM on Saturday, August 28th, 2010
me - tsol, that's all for now
two2muchpain ( member #29306) posted at 6:12 AM on Friday, September 3rd, 2010
Hi,
My birthday is Sept. 29th! 
Me:49,at time of A
H: 47,at time of A
M: 23 yrs.
OW:27 at time of A
Admitted to EA and other things: 6/16/10
PA (one night stand,sexting and more: 7/15/10
S:19, SS: 30, SD: 26
R: Currently trying to work it out.
openedupmyeyes ( member #27871) posted at 2:16 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
November 18th over here!
Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.
elad ( member #29497) posted at 5:29 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Sept. 26th is mine.
Me-BS
Her-WS numerous, countless A's
7 Years
7 year itch?
refuz2bavictim ( member #27176) posted at 5:30 AM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Pulverized ( member #27890) posted at 1:56 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
September 16th here 
Me-BS-46
WH-43
OW - 48
1st DDay - 11/28/09
2nd DDay - 1/08/10
Married 08/08 (invalid)
3rd DDay - 9/23/2014
DIVORCING!!!!
gardenmom ( member #29036) posted at 2:02 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
Mine is Oct 3. What if we don't want to have a birthday b/c we are having issues with self esteem and getting older. I will be 35 y.o. this year and I am just not sure I can handle the "hump" this year. I dread it. I am 3 months into R but just want to be young, cute, trendy and "perky". Boobs included. Wonder if I can get implants for my b'day. No, waste of money. GRRRRRRRRRRRR
Me-BS-35
HIM-FWH-37 (Dad6573)
2 kids
married 16 years
Dday EA 03/10
Dday PA 06/03/10
Dday whole truth 08/2011
So tired and confused. R is up to him now.
agreensleeve ( member #26210) posted at 12:25 AM on Friday, September 10th, 2010
My birthday is March 10. The same day as Barbie. I wonder what she would have done if Ken cheated on her with Midge, Skipper or some other "doll" 
BS:53/FWS:59(LCFBastard)/M:33 Years
DDay: 25Sep09:Online Porn;2Oct09:Emails/PA w/Escorts 6 times from Apr 03-Sep 09.In IC/MC/R.
This is my quest,No matter how hopeless, no matter how far.To be willing to march into HELL for a HEAVENLY cause.
sharonons ( member #24462) posted at 6:34 PM on Monday, September 13th, 2010
Irishlass ( new member #29666) posted at 6:20 AM on Wednesday, September 22nd, 2010
I was born on a Sunday - October 29th.
Thank you! Seems like the more birthdays I have, the less relevant they are.
moonchild53 ( member #26620) posted at 1:47 AM on Friday, September 24th, 2010
CanISurvive ( member #29788) posted at 6:52 AM on Friday, October 8th, 2010
Mine is coming up...11/04
D final 11/25/2011 -- on Black Friday! ;-)
Moved my stats to my Profile; click there for my story.
I am a Phoenix; I may be in the ashes stage at the moment, but I am now actively working on my Rebirth. =)
PS: I edit posts for typos & clarity
anotherstatistic ( member #26184) posted at 12:24 PM on Saturday, October 9th, 2010
October 16th for me! I love my birthday and I really love cake!
Me-BS 36 Him-WS 41 (just plain wrong)
hisD-17, myS-13, ourD-3, ourD-born 3/17/10
D-day- 7/29/09
PrettyWings ( member #25305) posted at 4:38 AM on Tuesday, October 12th, 2010
April 3rd here! Woo-hoo, Aries!
Me - BGF - 30
Her - WGF - 30
D-Day - Apr. 28 2009; TT for months
Anyone can give up, it's the easiest thing in the world to do. But to hold it together when everyone else would understand if you fell apart, that's true strength.
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