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bjkirby ( member #28791) posted at 11:15 PM on Sunday, December 12th, 2010
thanks for this post. I haven't been here in a while and it's just what I needed!!
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 11:06 PM on Monday, January 10th, 2011
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
nooneeverthought ( member #20157) posted at 5:05 PM on Wednesday, January 19th, 2011
it doesn't matter where you go in life ,it's who you have the beside you
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:50 AM on Friday, January 21st, 2011
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:20 PM on Friday, January 21st, 2011
Bump for Iris0127 and other newbees.
BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 4:16 AM on Sunday, January 30th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 10:18 AM on Monday, January 31st, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 7:27 PM on Friday, February 4th, 2011
worriedNow ( member #29320) posted at 12:32 AM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011
brokenheart59 ( member #28304) posted at 12:45 AM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011
Great post the only problem is when the other person says ok but then does the exact opposite of what you agreed upon.
BS-Me
WW-Her, 3-5 years 2 different men
true feelings for 1
HippyQueen ( member #29055) posted at 1:34 AM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011
Thanks for putting this back up front. I've been saying exactly these things.
Update: My husband passed away on 9/21/12. I've been on an emotional roller coaster since.
BS45 (Me)
STBXWH49
M- 2/14/87
2 sons, 19 & 23 YO
3/1/11 - heading for D.
6/4/11 R- Turned out to be false.
7/29/11 another D-day and decision
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 6:59 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2011
southsidecali ( member #22752) posted at 7:12 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2011
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 2:15 PM on Saturday, February 12th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 10:54 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 12:03 PM on Thursday, February 17th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 4:59 PM on Saturday, February 19th, 2011
bump 
Feb 8, 2011 ( member #31137) posted at 1:15 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2011
D-Day see username
and maybe March 11, 11
ME: 45 yr old BH
Her: 40 yr old WW
3 kids
married 11 years
Who is this woman in my house?!
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 6:50 AM on Thursday, February 24th, 2011
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 3:13 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2011
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