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isadora ( member #29130) posted at 4:18 AM on Friday, January 28th, 2011
bump 
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 4:13 AM on Sunday, January 30th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 10:18 AM on Monday, January 31st, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 7:24 PM on Friday, February 4th, 2011
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 3:16 AM on Saturday, February 5th, 2011
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 6:04 AM on Sunday, February 6th, 2011
Bump for the new folks!
You will survive!
FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 3:45 AM on Monday, February 7th, 2011
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 10:40 PM on Monday, February 7th, 2011
velveteer ( member #30997) posted at 10:46 PM on Monday, February 7th, 2011
This is probably the most important thing I have read here - do it and be consistent. I don't yet know if it will have any impact on WS but it is really helping me. I feel so much stronger for this.
Essential reading for this forum
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 7:00 PM on Wednesday, February 9th, 2011
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 2:16 PM on Saturday, February 12th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 10:52 PM on Monday, February 14th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 12:02 PM on Thursday, February 17th, 2011
The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 3:52 PM on Friday, February 18th, 2011
Some newbies need to read this.
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 4:58 PM on Saturday, February 19th, 2011
bump
TryingForgivenes ( member #29566) posted at 8:51 PM on Sunday, February 20th, 2011
bump for SurvivalMode
Finally respecting him again.I believe that time heals almost all, wish I could fast forward time.
"Hate the sin, Love the sinner" ~Gandhi
Me:31-BS & Him:25-fWS (Irish_guy)
Dday:3/12/10, tt: 4/4/10, 5/22/10
R'ing, & planning our future!
Feb 8, 2011 ( member #31137) posted at 1:15 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2011
D-Day see username
and maybe March 11, 11
ME: 45 yr old BH
Her: 40 yr old WW
3 kids
married 11 years
Who is this woman in my house?!
lordmayhem ( member #30526) posted at 1:35 PM on Monday, February 21st, 2011
In this initial days following DDay, doing the 180 is extremely difficult because you're still shocked and in survival mode. And most of us do the opposite of the 180 in the beginning.
BH-me, 45
fWW-her, 50
Married 21 yrs
2 kids (21, 12)
D-Day: 06/11/10
In R at this time
bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 6:50 AM on Thursday, February 24th, 2011
bumbed ( member #31024) posted at 3:10 PM on Saturday, February 26th, 2011
Not there yet but better and better
I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.
25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening
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