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cass ( member #24261) posted at 4:49 PM on Wednesday, December 29th, 2010
DDay - April 2008
Me - 58 and doing great, alone.
Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket!
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 1:59 AM on Thursday, December 30th, 2010
Need to bump again 
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 10:55 PM on Saturday, January 1st, 2011
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
isadora ( member #29130) posted at 5:02 PM on Sunday, January 2nd, 2011
Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days
I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.
FeelUnloved ( member #29404) posted at 1:35 AM on Monday, January 3rd, 2011
FeelUnloved ( member #29404) posted at 3:49 AM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2011
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 11:40 PM on Tuesday, January 4th, 2011
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
momma3times ( member #30092) posted at 9:20 PM on Wednesday, January 5th, 2011
Me: BS (37 yrs.)
Him: FWS (39 yrs.) EA via emails and phone calls that lasted 2-3 months.
Married 13 yrs, together for 19 yrs.
2 DDs (ages 9 and 5), 1 DS (3)
DDay 1/13/2010 (while I was 9 months pregnant!). Confronted him on 3/21/11
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 10:41 PM on Sunday, January 9th, 2011
UKgirl ( member #17062) posted at 10:56 PM on Monday, January 10th, 2011
Bump 
Affair1: Dday 30/07/06 LTA: 5yrs ex-fiancee Affair2: Dday 04/09/20 9mths another XHSgf.Me/BS, still young. Him/WS, old. 4 grown boysHaving an affair because you are unhappy is like eating Ex-lax because you are hungry - unfound's mom
Lostlassie ( member #30689) posted at 12:44 AM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2011
I cried when I read this. You said what I needed to hear. Now I need the strength to carry it out.
Thank you.
Unfortunately, he is not your mate right now. he has been replaced by a pod person.
~~taken from a post by Isadora~~
Gypsie ( member #30560) posted at 2:11 PM on Tuesday, January 11th, 2011
This post helped me understand the 180 much better. I was going about it all wrong. Not anymore. Thank you so much.
BW (Me) 38
WH 51
Married 10 years, together 11.5
No children (I have two from my first marriage)
D-Day 11/14/10 (exactly a month before my b-day)
D-Day 2 - 01/25/11
Filing for D in April
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 11:41 AM on Wednesday, January 19th, 2011
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 3:50 AM on Friday, January 21st, 2011
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:19 PM on Friday, January 21st, 2011
Bump for Iris0127 and other newbees.
BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.
southsidecali ( member #22752) posted at 4:39 PM on Friday, January 21st, 2011
I soo needed this today.. the 180 somewhat applies but what I need to work on is ACCEPTANCE..
Thanks!
hurttothebone ( member #30767) posted at 5:50 PM on Saturday, January 22nd, 2011
Newbies need this. Gonna look for They affair down and bump it also.
Fighting2Survive ( member #28410) posted at 6:58 PM on Monday, January 24th, 2011
Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces
hurttothebone ( member #30767) posted at 1:42 AM on Tuesday, January 25th, 2011
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 1:19 AM on Thursday, January 27th, 2011
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
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