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				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 2:17 PM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2011	
				BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			 
				    				Cee64D ( member #21836)		posted at 2:06 AM on Friday, August 26th, 2011	
				The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44 
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008		
	 	 			 
				    				Cee64D ( member #21836)		posted at 5:03 AM on Thursday, September 8th, 2011	
				The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44 
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008		
	 	 			 
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 3:07 PM on Friday, September 9th, 2011	
			 
	Bump   
 
 
			 			BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			 
				    				surviving101 ( member #33181)		posted at 4:21 AM on Saturday, September 10th, 2011	
				"I don't want to spoil the rest of your movie... but at the end everything will be all right."		
	 	 			 
				    				bumbed ( member #31024)		posted at 12:53 AM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011	
				 I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.
25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening		
	 	 			 
				    				Edie ( member #26133)		posted at 6:48 PM on Monday, September 19th, 2011	
		 			 
				    				Will-I-Ever-Know ( member #32703)		posted at 6:09 AM on Thursday, September 22nd, 2011	
				Me BS: 26
Him FWH: 28
Together: 6 years
 
DDay #1 June 2010 
Full blown 6 month long PA: OW was his 2nd Girlfriend.
Many DDays & TT for the rest of this year! 
In R. :)
WARNING: I am long-winded. Sorry in advance. :)		
	 	 			 
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 3:15 PM on Friday, September 23rd, 2011	
		 			 
				    				numb&dumb ( member #28542)		posted at 8:37 PM on Monday, September 26th, 2011	
				Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.
Bring it, life. I am ready for you.		
	 	 			 
				    				boontje ( member #33247)		posted at 1:01 AM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2011	
			 
	Thank you for sharing this perspective of the 180. It was exactly what I needed to read today! 
 
			 			Me: BS 
Dday: June 2011
Courage is not having the strength to go on; it is going on when you don't have the strength.
--Theodore Roosevelt		
	 	 			 
				    				FacingReality ( new member #33437)		posted at 7:18 PM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2011	
			 
	bump 
 
 
	Is it possible to pin this to the top of the forum? 
 
			 	 			 
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 2:44 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011	
			 
	adbat234   
 
 
			 			BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			 
				    				sudra ( member #30143)		posted at 12:24 AM on Monday, October 3rd, 2011	
				Me (BW) (5\64), Him(SAWH) (68)Married 31 years, 1 son (28), 1 stepdaughter (36) DDay #1 January 2004DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)Working on R		
	 	 			 
				    				shocked4 ( member #33447)		posted at 1:23 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2011	
			 
	Thank you, I read and reread this often. 
 
			 			D-Day August 17, 2011
M-23 years
4 children ages 10-23		
	 	 			 
				    				imagoodwitch ( member #23375)		posted at 1:18 AM on Friday, October 7th, 2011	
				Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess		
	 	 			 
				    				openedupmyeyes ( member #27871)		posted at 8:35 PM on Friday, October 7th, 2011	
				Me:55 BS 
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.		
	 	 			 
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 5:38 AM on Thursday, October 13th, 2011	
			 			 
				    				unarmbears ( member #7480)		posted at 3:38 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2011	
			 
	Bumping for the weekend   
 
 
			 			FBS-Me, 67              
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie		
	 	 			 
				    				unarmbears ( member #7480)		posted at 2:33 PM on Saturday, October 22nd, 2011	
				FBS-Me, 67              
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie		
	 	 
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