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Understanding the 180

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:17 PM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2011

For (((exhaustedmum)))

BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 2:06 AM on Friday, August 26th, 2011

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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Cee64D ( member #21836) posted at 5:03 AM on Thursday, September 8th, 2011

bump

The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 3:07 PM on Friday, September 9th, 2011

Bump

BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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surviving101 ( member #33181) posted at 4:21 AM on Saturday, September 10th, 2011

Thank YOU!

"I don't want to spoil the rest of your movie... but at the end everything will be all right."

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bumbed ( member #31024) posted at 12:53 AM on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011

bump

I rather suspect like all the worst things in life, making sense of it will not happen.


25 year relationship D day 1/28/11
The we door is closed but the ME doors are opening

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Edie ( member #26133) posted at 6:48 PM on Monday, September 19th, 2011

Bump

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Will-I-Ever-Know ( member #32703) posted at 6:09 AM on Thursday, September 22nd, 2011

bump

Me BS: 26
Him FWH: 28
Together: 6 years

DDay #1 June 2010
Full blown 6 month long PA: OW was his 2nd Girlfriend.
Many DDays & TT for the rest of this year!
In R. :)

WARNING: I am long-winded. Sorry in advance. :)

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annb ( member #22386) posted at 3:15 PM on Friday, September 23rd, 2011

bump

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numb&dumb ( member #28542) posted at 8:37 PM on Monday, September 26th, 2011

bump for Smedley

Dday 8/31/11. EA/PA. Lied to for 3 years.

Bring it, life. I am ready for you.

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boontje ( member #33247) posted at 1:01 AM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2011

Thank you for sharing this perspective of the 180. It was exactly what I needed to read today!

Me: BS
Dday: June 2011

Courage is not having the strength to go on; it is going on when you don't have the strength.

--Theodore Roosevelt

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FacingReality ( new member #33437) posted at 7:18 PM on Tuesday, September 27th, 2011

bump

Is it possible to pin this to the top of the forum?

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lordhasaplan? ( member #30079) posted at 2:44 PM on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011

adbat234

BS- Me (45)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R.Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.

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sudra ( member #30143) posted at 12:24 AM on Monday, October 3rd, 2011

bump

Me (BW) (5\64), Him(SAWH) (68)Married 31 years, 1 son (28), 1 stepdaughter (36) DDay #1 January 2004DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)Working on R

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shocked4 ( member #33447) posted at 1:23 PM on Monday, October 3rd, 2011

Thank you, I read and reread this often.

D-Day August 17, 2011
M-23 years
4 children ages 10-23

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imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 1:18 AM on Friday, October 7th, 2011

bumping for a newbie

Ordinary average everyday sane psycho super goddess

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openedupmyeyes ( member #27871) posted at 8:35 PM on Friday, October 7th, 2011

bump

Me:55 BS
Him:55 FWH Trying to make me a believer?
Years married:37
:03-01-10: The day I learned the truth
Kids:Daughters 4 all grown and married.
Reconciliation is hard.
Really freakin' hard.

posts: 771   ·   registered: Mar. 8th, 2010   ·   location: The Great State of Texas
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bufffalo ( member #21854) posted at 5:38 AM on Thursday, October 13th, 2011

DDay 9/25/2008

BH-me

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unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 3:38 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2011

Bumping for the weekend

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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unarmbears ( member #7480) posted at 2:33 PM on Saturday, October 22nd, 2011

FBS-Me, 67
FWH-Him, 62
2 Sons 33 and 38
2 Daughters 36 & 31 And 5 darling grandchildren!
"Love is an impulsive act, it's free. It's the story we tell about it afterward that's our poverty." Byron Katie

posts: 4904   ·   registered: Jun. 27th, 2005   ·   location: From where the trees lean east...
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