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tearsofjade ( member #25778) posted at 2:15 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
I found out R for me was one sided since it was false. I got rejected sexually, lied to, gaslighted, manipulated and emotionally abused during the process. That being said I can now say without a doubt that I did everything I could. So I can go forward with what I need, a D, and never look back.
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FBW(me)48
Divorced and really happy!
The best revenge is a life lived well!
andyd1950 ( member #20018) posted at 2:16 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
I wish I'd D'ed when I had the chance. I was scared of being alone, but now I realize that I have been all along.
BS (me) - 61
fWW (her)- 57
Married 39 years March 17,2012
Forgiving, that's easy.
Trusting again, that's hard.
Forgetting, impossible!
"When you take things for granted, the things you are granted get taken away."~ RevRun.
realitybites ( member #6908) posted at 2:17 PM on Wednesday, September 8th, 2010
If your WW is truely like mine there will be another A and you can do it then. You can trigger one at anytime with these type of people by not paying enough attention to them and fullfilling their "needs". Won't take six months to a year.
I laughed at this at first and then sadly realized that it was true.
Stop expecting loyalty from people who cannot even give you honesty.
He stopped being my husband the first time he cheated. It took me awhile to understand that I was no longer his wife.
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