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I don't remember my first time, actually. Not really. I think I remember the dress I was wearing. And where we were. Other than that...nothing. And my husband is my one and only.

Make of that what you will.

Yes

I remember who and where ... and I can narrow it down to a month and year if I count back. I know it was right before I turned 16 and it was after prom. So if I do the math I can figure it was probably May (because prom was always in May at my HS) and I can figure out the year because I can calculate in what year I turned 16. But exact date? Nope.

Getting more recent I cannot remember the date of the first time I had sex with my STBXH. Though again I can narrow it down to a month and year.

As for the first time - I think I remember it because it was remarkable in that it was so unremarkable. It wasn't at all what I expected. It was neither painful nor enjoyable. It was, in fact, rather dull.

LOL

[This message edited by SouthernGal at 10:22 AM, September 9th (Thursday)]

Yep... I remember pretty much everything...

WB

Yes. It was with my GF who 18 years later became my WW.

Yes.

FTR - it SUCKED!

Edited to add; I don't remember the date exactly, but I know the month and year.

[This message edited by wannabenormal at 12:50 PM, September 9th (Thursday)]

Hell no! I remember where it was (and of course who), but nothing beyond that.

I think I don't remember because it was nothing special. I was young, and not really in love. It was something I felt I had to do.

If it was worth remembering, I would have.

I remember it very well and it has been 40 years. God is that possible? It wasn't even that hot. I was more afraid that I would not measure up than anything else. She was an older woman. I think 23.

yes, twenty years ago. i remember who, where, how old i was, not the month. not a lot of details - somethings you just don't need to remember! we were both virgins and i do remember it was very awkward.

that being said, i pretty sure if i sat down and tried to remember every single man i'd slept with i'd have a hard time doing so...i had one serious relationship in my late teens i remember well, but there were some boys that have faded into the background!

Unexpected, My wife was 20 yrs old the first time WE had sex.

Wife, therapist has explored the abuse angle and has determined there was no abuse or FOO issues.

However, the "blocking" may be correct(?)

[This message edited by cuckhold at 3:14 PM, September 9th (Thursday)]

Yes. I was 14. I had no idea what I was doing ... I just knew I was supposed to do it

Yes, person, place, circumstance and date.

It was with WS, I was 19.

It has lost all of its specialness.

Of course I remember:

I was my wedding night!

My wife was also my first kiss well before that.

God do wish I knew then what I should have known at the time.

[This message edited by JustSoTired2 at 7:39 PM, September 9th (Thursday)]

Yes, I remember the first time...it was such a relief! I was an ugly duckling in high school, and when I finally got to college I was just so relieved anyone would take interest in me!

But now that I think about it, I really don't remember specifics about the next guy I dated. That's odd, because usually I have a very detailed memory. I think I was still heartbroken over first BF dumping me.

I do remember with great fondness the first time with WH.

Yes, I do recall it. I was 19, the boy and I were both virgins (though we'd done everything else but, with each other!), and we were camping in a tent in a national park. I pretty much took to it like a duck to water!

wife/5, Now that i think about it our MC believes my FWW, though organized to the point of "anality,(!) is NOT a detail person. I, on the other hand am "organizedly challenged" but a VERY detail oriented person. Maybe an easy explaination why she "Can't remember shit" and i can recall the death of a fly in 1976!

Yes. It was my H, in the first part of July, 23 years ago. I remember everything about that night except the exact date.