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Does it really matter? I know it does not really matter during sex. It doesn't matter to me at all. But menz, does it really matter to you? Does the typical man with a small penis have anxiety over it?

I can only relate with the breast size. I'm tiny - 34B - but again, this doesn't matter to me either.

I remember seeing a cartoon in a mens magazine a long time ago. In it was an adonis looking guy with a small penis. Lying naked on the bed next to him was a volopuous womas. In the caption the woman asks him sarcastically " Who are you gonna please with that thing ?" His reply was "myself" LOL.....

For me Im happy with what the good lord gave me. Im not a large guy nor am I small. I guess Im what you would call normal. And Ive never had a complaint about it.

I'm average, not tiny. I do get jealous watching those 10 inch monsters taking 3 minutes to work it in it's so big and hearing them scream

Does the typical man with a small penis have anxiety over it?

I wouldn't know

Does it really matter? I know it does not really matter during sex.

Contrary to the conventional wisdom, when this topic has (ahem) arisen on SI in the past, I got the impression based on responses that for a fair number of the ladies size does matter (and that there is too big as well as too small). It would bother me I think, but FWW tells me I am above average, and this is the one thing in which I choose to believe she is being honest with me.

One of her OM she reports as undersized and it apparently did affect him and their sex.

FWIW, I think a small penis would be a bigger problem than smaller breasts.

It's sad that 34B is considered "tiny" in this McDonald's-fattened society. Most women are naturally B-cups when they're at their ideal weight. Some are naturally larger, and that's nice, too. And there are plenty of women with A-cups who have beautiful figures.

Remember: there are no truly small penises, only extra-large vaginas.

Mine is exactly average for someone of my ethnicity living in the United States. I'm a little self-conscious sometimes because I'm a "grower" rather than a "shower". Ultimately, that doesn't matter. My only anxiety is about whether the sex itself is good, and relative size can affect that, on either side of the equation (too large or too small).

Yes some men are notoriously insecure about size.

I am sometimes too, even though according to the data I looked up on the internet and my W assertions I was above average in both categories.

I mention that not to boast, but to show you how seriously some men can take this. Even if they have nothing to worry about.

. . .AND yeah I measured. I was bored, had a tape measure and internet access.

It's sad that 34B is considered "tiny" in this McDonald's-fattened society.

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I personally love B and C, not a fan of the DD's, etc. Don't know why so many women have to get boob jobs, a C is perfect. I've seen some polls and there are many more ass men than boob men.

Im not a menz but I have a comment. I've only been with one guy who was what I'd term undersized (compared to other guys I knew, I mean). He was a confident chap who had compensated for what God didn't give him between his legs by using what God did give him between his ears. He had learned so many other ways to rock a woman's world ( ) that after ten minutes one just didn't notice his lack of size.

[This message edited by lynnm1947 at 2:57 PM, December 1st (Thursday)]

Remember: there are no truly small penises, only extra-large vaginas.

Good point!

Not male, and never measured, but XWH was below average and he was admittedly self conscious about it.

t/j – As a 34a I am no stranger to insecurity myself, but after cheating, my XWH “confessed” that all men prefer bigger breasts and if they say otherwise they are lying. While the comment stung, I am confident to say at least men know upfront what they are getting with me; he can take his insecurity and have fun shopping his teeny weenie elsewhere.

Remember: there are no truly small penises, only extra-large vaginas.

Anatomically speaking, the average vaginal canal is only 3.5" long. That's why your ob-gyn can perform a pelvic exam using his/her finger. Longer than that and it's stretching into your other organs/muscles to accommodate the penis.

*i have a somewhat sensitive bladder so bigger is not necessarily better*

*at my scrawniest, hovering on the bottom of the BMI scale and occasionally dipping into underweight, i was a 32D*

Wow -

Just the topic made me laugh nervously.

Remember: there are no truly small penises, only extra-large vaginas

I have an XH that can disprove that theory.

Sorry, that was mean.

Okay, I'm not THAT sorry.

Ok so I will admit I am asking based on a recent experience. Fooling around with a lovely gentlemen one evening when he started getting all nervous. He hemmed and hawed quite a bit until I saw what he was so concerned about. hmmm.

And, thank you, to those that said 34B is not necessarily tiny. I suppose not. I'm 100 lbs soaking wet so they are proportioned to the rest of my body. Either way, by the time the boys get to my girls they are fairly excited to be there and not thinking about the size of them. Sort of like I was when I got to my gentlemen friend...I wasn't thinking about his size. I was thinking "ohhh yeeeea "

Guess it was his reaction that left an impression on me.

H is hung up on it. He makes comments that indicate he thinks he is 'less than', but he's not. He is average.

I can't help now but think of the Seinfeld episode with George and the pool, and 'shrinkage'.

I think many guys are wayyy to worried about this issue.

I blame it on porn making everyone think they are not good enough because they are seeing these enormous dicks or breasts or whatever, and somehow think they don't 'measure up'.

Size does help, but good grief, it really is what you do with it.

XH was average to smallish, but had more girth. When he got too "excited" it hurt. He also styled himself as a "generous" lover because he insisted that I climax every single time. I faked it a lot. At some point it stopped being fun and just began to chafe and I needed sleep. Honestly, he was just a jackrabbit, constantly changing positions, pretending he was in a porn. I could never focus. Did I bring this up to him? Of course! But it hurt his penis' feelings and rather than asking me what I liked, he would try to convince me of what I liked. *Sigh*

The next guy was small. And selfish.

The current guy, above average size, not as much girth, much better with foreplay, less "imaginative" in bed, but oh so much more attentive and engaged.

So, does size matter? Yes, the size of the ego.

I think what would help men is if you ladies explained what small, teenie, tiny, below averge, average, normal, above normal mean.

I mean, we know your boob size when you say A,B,C,or D we have a visual picture.

So what is tiny, teenie, below? 3 or 4 inches?

What is average, normal 5 or 6 inches?

Above average? 7 or 8 inches?

I'm tiny - 34B -

Tiny is 32AA. 34B is perfectly respectable. You fit in clothes without looking indecent and you can go bra-less for backless dresses and halter tops. You can wear lacy bras without wires. Not so for us in the D-cup department.

944, your measurements are about in line with my labeling system. That being said, since I would never actually measure, the category one should happen to fall into is more heavily influenced by how in favor said gent is. XWH for instance went from low end of average to teeny in the divorce proceedings. If I had to guess, he was probably about 4".