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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 1:20 AM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
I think I'm officially allowed on the bus as it's been 8 months now.
so...hello bus!
I'm bringing some warm apple pie and homemade whip cream....seriously, it's a foodgasm...
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 1:20 AM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
---->Care
I hope you are doing a happy dance. 
gma
[This message edited by gma56 at 7:22 PM, September 6th (Thursday)]
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 1:23 AM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
Woo hoo! Thanks, Tesla. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
tlartclark ( member #24443) posted at 1:27 AM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
riding along with you, happy for the great company 
opportunity knocked recently, but as much as tried, I was just so not into him, reminded me too much of ex 
Me - BW - divorced, recovered and happy
Him - who cares
2 amazing sons
D-day 6/2008
Divorced 1/5/11
Sometimes the path of least resistance just makes the road longer.
Sometimes you have to head straight on into the pain to come out the other side
ManBearDivorce ( member #36258) posted at 1:39 AM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
Hello everybody, Was just wondering before I board the bus if the majority of males get off the bus earlier? But for me I'm going to ride this bus for a while. Been since march for me so it makes it 5 months. I was searching for some but cold turkey is the best. I went cold turkey to get off cigarettes. I have been smoke free for 4 years now. So, I know I can be good with the bus.
I'll take the 7 row seat to the left. Favorite seat in school.
cayc ( member #21964) posted at 1:42 AM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
Does the bus have wi-fi?
I guess it doesn't matter since I'm on it anyway
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 1:45 AM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
MBD- I don't think the men get off the bus any sooner.
Tesla brought pie ?
Tlart-it's always good company on the bus. Definitely more laughs and less drama. 
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 2:23 AM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
Polo!! I'm not a Newbie, NIK, just been quietly huddled in the back, hoping to pick up hints on the best way to tuck and roll when the bus stops.
I'm a chocoloholic, so I brought fixin's for chocolate martinis and some high-end chocolates. The chocolate martinis are great - only takes a couple to knock me out and lots of time can pass before I'm awake again! Makes the time on the bus pass much more quickly when you are unaware!!
BTW, Nature_Girl, if you have been on the bus for years and years, your 3 kids must be all close to 10 now..... I haven't had so many chocolate martinis that I can't do simple math.... yet.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
LoveHerStill ( member #31504) posted at 11:47 AM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
Polo with a capital P.
2 years, 5 Months for me.
I feel like a homeless person who rides all over town to stay warm.
Last time was a few days before dday with XWW.
I kinda already feel sorry for the first lucky lady. She won't be able to sit down for a while after I get off the bus! 
Me BH-45 @ Dday
Her WW-44 @ Dday
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011
It only hurts when I breathe.
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 1:55 PM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
**Waves Hi to everyone**
It's been 15 months for me.
No prospects and not looking.
Tesla made pie!?!?!?!?
Yum.
ETA: took advice from here when I was lurking and BOB is now living in my house
[This message edited by Lola2kids at 7:56 AM, September 7th (Friday)]
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 2:45 PM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
Polo. For SO long. I hope it's true it's like riding a bike; I'm afraid I've forgotten how.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
abbycadabby ( member #27428) posted at 3:57 PM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
Polo.
2/11 was last time. With STBXWH.
AlmostFree ( member #29556) posted at 4:03 PM on Friday, September 7th, 2012
OMG, it's been 3 1/2 years for me. Hadn't thought about it until I saw the thread. I want to be near the beer cooler.
Me BW 44, Him STBXAWH 42
DS 10, DD 7
I threw him out 9/2009, D-Day 10/2009
Married 12yrs, Divorcing
When they show you who they are, believe them.
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 12:11 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Chili ( member #35503) posted at 12:20 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
5.5 months and not much interested in tent poles. Can I get a training wheel punch card or something?
Booze seem taken care of, but I have to say for a bunch of wonky celibates, your food choices are kinda aphrodisiac-ish. Well..all except for the soft gummy bear thing...that just ain't doin' it...even for the window lickers I suspect.
I have batteries to contribute since it sure seems like ya'll need 'em.
Oh - and I will soon have a quilt to throw in the mix...or rather throw somewhere. Given its likely history, we might have to hang it from the luggage rack as our "colors."
2012 pretty much sucked.
Things no longer suck.
Took off flying solo with the co-pilot chili dog.
"Life teaches you how to live it if you live long enough" - Tony Bennett
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 12:46 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
Almost fourteen months! Wasn't sure what this bus was all about until I started to read. I was just stopping in to New Beginnings and spied it....I've looked around a little in this forum before and didn't know we had this bus!
I'm almost divorced, and not sure where my new beginning directions will take me but I am So Very Happy to be almost done with the divorce part.
I want to sit up close to the front and honk the horn!!
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 12:50 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
Compartmented, we're always looking for drivers.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:11 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
I think this bus needs some nachos to go with the margaritas, so I'll have them brought in from the Mexican place in town. What's the movie tonight?
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
Compartmented ( member #29410) posted at 1:16 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
Ooooo, wildbananas! I can drive?? Are there rules on where?? I've always hunkered after a "Thelma and Louise" style trip!
ManBearDivorce ( member #36258) posted at 4:15 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012
Thanks gma
But there is a over welming amount of woman here compared to men. Maybe the guys just lurk and stay quite. Positives for me, I get free food from the nice ladies.
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