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tesla ( member #34697) posted at 4:21 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Sigh...polo...
Only 4 months...seems like 4 m-effin years.
Settling in for a long ride...nice to see I've got such great company.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
Jpapageorge ( member #31800) posted at 5:45 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo.
Still lickin' the windows at the back of the bus. I do have some Gummy Bears though if anyone wants some. They have been in my pocket so they are nice and soft.
"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF
Must Survive ( member #34533) posted at 6:15 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Guess I am riding this bus too! Six months for me. Mentally I think I want to stay on this bus forever, my body says I can't! 
Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorced-Let my new beginning start
They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 7:22 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
polo...4 years 
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
trying_2_recover ( member #28778) posted at 7:44 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
OMG a few more months and it'll be 7yrs. I'm not sure how that happened.
Divorced since 2007 from WH who has married OW.
sunfish ( member #33153) posted at 8:27 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Its been...4 weeks - OMG... Years, really? I am so scared. I guess my "toy box" is going to get upgraded!
...polo?
And if I have to be on this bus, I am so glad its with all of you. I love these kinds of posts. I will pass on the gummy bears, thanks. 
Harriet ( member #34543) posted at 8:35 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo. It's been a long time since I checked in here - I used to go to the "just found out" but it was too raw and depressing for me. You guys who are moving on (like me) are much more fun, in spite of the pain I know we are all going through. Oh, and I guess it's been...holy sh** almost a year!
D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 9:19 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
there's just this gent that would like to have me join him *in his truck* for a while....having dinner with him tonight.
No not in his truck not for your first time off the bus ... it is very fun tho makes ya feel young again ...
I will be 3yrs in Nov ... so I guess I am not the driver which is ok ... I have some road rage and ad that to lack of some good loving and I am very dangerous with a full lethal weapon ...
maybe we could be the new karma bus ... how funny would that be ... get run over by a bus load of us it would be a violent funny ending ...
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 9:27 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
For those of us on this bus so long we've fossilized, will the newbies please take turns tying us oldies out on the "prow" of the bus? I think it would be fun to be a figurehead as we careen across the oceans & highways of celibacy. Just pick the bugs out of my teeth when you place me back on my bench.
Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU
brokenapart ( member #8309) posted at 9:35 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Its been...4 weeks -
You are SO not on the bus yet.
The rule used to be six months. A few people sought a 3 month waiver. But 4 weeks?
come for a visit, but don't take a seat yet. And bring snacks!
2.5 years here.
[This message edited by brokenapart at 6:54 PM, May 13th (Sunday)]
me- BS
Divorced & living again.
"Let go or get dragged" - beaner
Life is Good
LoveHerStill ( member #31504) posted at 10:21 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo,
Last time was with XWW. 
It still works just fine, reminded every morning with the tent pole!
Moving in two Weeks! Gonna settle in, then we shall see!
No hurry, but I have never been a fan of riding the bus, both in reality, and figuratively!
I paid my fare, just not sure what stop to get off!
Hahaha, I said get off!
Me BH-45 @ Dday
Her WW-44 @ Dday
Married-20yrs
Together-26yrs
D-Day 4/11/10
Divorced 9/13/2010
XWW Married OM 5/23/2011
It only hurts when I breathe.
lost and lonely ( member #17205) posted at 10:29 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo
6 months.....6 long, lonely months!
Me: 39
WxH: 39
Together 16yrs, married 12yrs (we were 16 and 17 when we met...high school sweethearts)
2 sons
Separated 6/09, Divorced 2/11
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 11:33 PM on Saturday, May 12th, 2012
Polo; it's been about 8 years for me. Since gma got off, I'm driving now.
We're on the highway to hell, and I'm the bus driver... 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
lied2 ( member #1807) posted at 12:08 AM on Sunday, May 13th, 2012
Polo
It has been 8 yrs for me I had to think about it. I have my own seat too but iding on the hood for a while actually sounds like it would be fun.
I have to say I am glad I am not on the bus alone. I wish none of us where on here but it is nice to have company.
[This message edited by lied2 at 6:08 PM, May 12th (Saturday)]
The grass isn't greener on the other side of the fence. It is astro turf.
The essence of love is not what we think or do or provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves.
A clean house is the sign of a broken computer.
risingfromashes ( member #3903) posted at 12:14 AM on Sunday, May 13th, 2012
For those of us on this bus so long we've fossilized, will the newbies please take turns tying us oldies out on the "prow" of the bus? I think it would be fun to be a figurehead as we careen across the oceans & highways of celibacy. Just pick the bugs out of my teeth when you place me back on my bench.
I could be a snow plow!!!!!
But I do have hope. I am not dead.
***Cannot figure out how to make the quote in bold letters...sorry...Nature Girl!
[This message edited by risingfromashes at 6:18 PM, May 12th (Saturday)]
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 2:20 AM on Sunday, May 13th, 2012
Polo! Seven months-- good thing I packed my slippers, bathrobe, and a few great books, because I think it's going to be a LONG ride!
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
Jen ( member #26584) posted at 2:48 AM on Sunday, May 13th, 2012
I have my own seat too but iding on the hood for a while actually sounds like it would be fun.
Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
caregiver9000 ( member #28622) posted at 4:05 AM on Sunday, May 13th, 2012
allright...
Pollo! (not misspelled. That would be po-yo. Spanish for CHICKEN... cause that is what I am.)
2.5 years and I think it is a fine ride. Climate controlled, I got the remote to the on board movies, and no one seems to care about directions or speed. I'm good.
Me: fortysomething, independent, happy,
XH "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
two kids, teens. Old enough I am truly NO CONTACT w/ NPD zebraduck
S 5/2010
D 12/2012
treegirls ( member #17330) posted at 4:45 AM on Sunday, May 13th, 2012
Polo! Gosh, just figured it out - at 5 years 2 months.
Is there a map to help with directions on how to reach a destination and that also explains what to do when you get there?
Me 46 years old
M 13 years, together 17 years
Two girls, ages 13 and 7
WH died July 1, 2009 at age 46 from pancreatic cancer diagnosed July 2005. Affair began Nov. 2006 when cancer metastasized.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:14 AM on Sunday, May 13th, 2012
We're on the highway to hell
Great, now I'm singing AC/DC...
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
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