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hexed ( member #19258) posted at 7:50 PM on Tuesday, August 7th, 2012
I always called OW by her first name. It wasn't my name though. I could tell the use of her name stung X far more than any of the crude names I came up with.
If she's married you might try calling her Mrs Lastname. A nice reminder of what a jerk she is while maintaining some dignity
But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned
“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler
LadyQ ( member #32847) posted at 1:07 AM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012
CFW. stands for crazy freakin whore. Saying her name still sickens me. When I talked to her BH a few weeks ago, I referred to her as "your wife". I s'pose not being able to say her name means I'm still renting her too much space in my mind. But I don't want to humanize her by calling her by her name.
Tune out the noise of what others tell you about who you are and work it out for yourself...
tinysteps ( member #36104) posted at 3:16 AM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012
So many names so little time. Taking a cue from here I called her "your whore" to my H. Ohhhh my he didn't like THAT! Truth hurts I guess. 
Peace
BS-Me (56
WH-Him (62)
M-20 years T-23 years
D'Day April 20, 2012
On the R Rollercoaster
8.2.19 back here again. Something tells me I need to be concerned.
11.6.20 back here again. Why don't I remember why I was concerned in?
What if
LivinginLimbo ( member #35004) posted at 12:36 PM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012
Most important rule is never use her actual name. She doesn't deserve that courtesy.
Add me among those who will not say "its" name. I also made that clear to my H the one time he made that mistake. I refuse to humanize this slut.
BS - 65
WH - 63
Married 37 years
D-Day 2/12/12
D-Day 6/1/16 Caught him back online early enough that no physical contact took place but still devastating. This sucks.
2hurtbyfar ( new member #32495) posted at 1:13 PM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012
I never refer to OW by her first name - WH refers to her by her surname...
I prefer to call her 'bicycle' - well lets put it this way... she has been well and truely ridden by a lot of men!
“Agree with everything, explain nothing, then do what is best for you.” Sherry Argov
VeilLifted ( member #34692) posted at 2:57 PM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012
Ghettoskank
project pussy
He definitely affaired down
"your girlfriend" as others have said this one bothers him the most.
He refers to gs as "her" or "that girl" he never says her name. Could barely make himself say it on dday. Every now and then I have said its name on purpose to
see him squirm
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Me - BW
Him - FWH
DDay 10-29-11 2 month EA 1 time PA
He had ended it 10-28-11
Broke NC 12-20-11
S 12-21-11 filed D 1-4-12
R started/H moved home 2-8-12
2 wonderul boys 17 & 14(now 20 & 17)
Now we have a beautiful grandson!
Married 19 years(n
GreenMom ( member #36385) posted at 5:26 PM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012
I just refer to her by her name most of the time. Though I have been known to refer to her as "the b*tch" or "homewrecker" or "piece of trash" when I'm ranting to a friend.
DD#1 6/14/12
DD#2 7/29/12
Reconcilation attempt didn't last long...WH moved out 8/10/12
Divorcing... hoping to be done soon
Making a fantastic NB for myself and my family!
Itrustedyou ( member #35831) posted at 7:40 PM on Wednesday, August 8th, 2012
PMSL at all the great references to the lower life forms but mine is a favourite that I take pleasure in it is..... Ugly c*** bitch horse teeth fish face.
My sister refers to her as granny fanny which always makes me laugh. WH just calls her IT and refers any subject abou IT is lowering the tone.
I did refer to his girlfriend several times in the beginning which gave me satisfaction from the wounded look on his face. Now it's ewwwwww you went FUGLY .
BW 35
FWH 41
2DS, 1DD
Married 11years together 14 years
EA/PA 11 weeks
OW- 49 Single Old Manipulative Whore-extended family
DD 02/11/2011
TT til 05/01/2012
ihatehim ( member #35646) posted at 2:49 AM on Thursday, August 9th, 2012
Toilet bowl bitch (bc she is NASTY just like a toilet!) or dog-face trout
Me: 33
Him:31
Ow: 27 (worked together)
Married 6years, 2 kids
yesterdaysdreams ( new member #26305) posted at 6:54 PM on Thursday, August 9th, 2012
SIL's OW, but I call her Twunt or Twatwaffle.
sosad08 ( new member #32946) posted at 11:15 PM on Thursday, August 9th, 2012
I call mine the bar troll
BS - 51
WS - 51
3 Kids - 30,20,19
1 Grandchild - 7
DD - 8/6/10
Don't know where I am...
BrokenSpirit50 ( member #34485) posted at 2:49 AM on Saturday, August 11th, 2012
I had to get in on this one.
Donuts
The skank has fake boobs that look like glazed donuts. Fake, fake, fake
Married 32 years, together for 40
DDay Dec. 17, 2011
No R, D June 21, 2012
Me BS 58
Him WH 59
Now with WBF 3 yrs. DD#2 June 5, 2018
Truth is like surgery, it hurts but heals. A Lie is like a painkiller. It gives instant relief but has si
riverinegypt ( member #35830) posted at 3:00 AM on Saturday, August 11th, 2012
slimy cun+ stain.
The ugliest phrase I can imagine. If you can think of something uglier, please let me know.
Sorry. Still a little angry. ;o)
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Me: 43/ stbXH: 43 (alcoholic),
d-day5/22/12, D pending
“my goal is to always come from a place of love ...but sometimes you just have to break it down for a motherf#cker”
― RuPaul
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 6:22 AM on Saturday, August 11th, 2012
I usually refer to her by first and last name, though a profane epithet or three have crossed my lips.
X hates it most when I call her "your girlfriend."
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
Keepcalm ( member #36234) posted at 9:43 PM on Saturday, August 11th, 2012
My husband actually asked me to call her by her name! I DON'T THINK SO! I use to call her the Skank, now its Cumdumpster. THanks SI
BS Me 57
WS Him 55
Married 30 yrs
DDay 1/28/2012
I have no idea what is going on
del311 ( member #33840) posted at 4:16 AM on Sunday, August 12th, 2012
BS(me)..39
WS(her)..38
OM(boy)..22(WTF)
Married..18y
2 children..18 & 5
DDay 3/3/11 "EA only"
DDay 3/7/11 "yup PA"
Grasping for R...fingers.cramped.losing.grip...
MystiKay ( member #36401) posted at 4:21 AM on Sunday, August 12th, 2012
It changes..the main one I call by her shortened first name or many other deragotory names. And the second girl, i just call Bitch. The men I call Bastard, asshole and by their last names. Which really does kind of suck because one if polish and his name is like 56 letters long. But i have found a sudden love of polock jokes now.
GettingApathetic ( member #36109) posted at 4:36 AM on Sunday, August 12th, 2012
Love the idea of calling The Beast Mrs. ----. Good reminder that they trashed two families, not just one. I still hate the bitch with every fiber of my being, but I am starting to think she could have been any port in a storm. I like this thought b/c it makes her even more pathetic than the dumb bitch already was. He could have at least had an affair with someone awesome - it would not be as insulting.
hailstormer ( member #35873) posted at 4:39 AM on Wednesday, September 19th, 2012
My SIL suggestion was Lot Lizard and I will have to be honest had to google that one but once I found the meaning I started using that one and because it was a company affair used the companys name The C***** Lot Lizard. Also the comment that said her Hubby's whore well I told mine wait till the kids find out about Daddy's Little Whore! I am sure that hit the spot
me(BS)-55
him(WS)-53
together 21 years
1st D-Day 4-19-10
2nd D-Day 5-3-12
married 19 years
2 kids 13-twins
Unfortunately...divorcing
missyb32641 ( member #35656) posted at 7:14 AM on Wednesday, September 19th, 2012
A friend of mine came up with Skunt. my new personal favorite. 
ME: BS 43
Him FWH 45
Married 20 years together 22 at the time.
Working thru R.
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