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womaninflux ( member #39667) posted at 2:46 AM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

When we are in MC, I refer to her by her first name. It takes the power away. Sometimes I refer to her as his former girlfriend.

With my friends, we refer to her as (the name we are not supposed to say on here)-faced whore (are we still allowed to say that?) or my SAfWH's former girlfriend.

Finally, my BFF I've known in good times and bad for 35 years said it all: "Every woman I know named - - - - is a hooker." It's funny, because other people have said the same thing. Lots of people have experience with women who have this name and they are not good ones.

BS - mid-40's
SAWH - mid 40's
Kids - 2 elementary school aged
Getting tons of therapy and trying to "work it out"

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BetrayalHurts ( member #34836) posted at 2:54 AM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

I call her "your friend".......he hates that

M 25 years
BW Me - 50's
WH Him - 60's
OW 25 years younger
D-Days too numerous to mention last D-day being 12-2-11 *OW went on fishing trip 5-21-13*

"A relationship is only made for two, but some bitches don't know how to count"

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stunnedin12 ( member #38141) posted at 3:39 AM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

I call her the same name wh used to hide her in his phone. Bugs the hell out of him. He asked if I would use her real name once..... um, not a snowball's chance in hades that will happen.

Here and in my mind, she is chickie --- That equally annoys wh.

Should she ever have the opportunity to serve me (a very real possibility) I plan to look her in the eye and call her the nickname wh used. I mean we all know how precious those cute little nicknames are, the nickname was so special to them, shouldn't we all have the pleasure of using it?

ME - Betrayed Spouse
Him - Wayward spouse

Lawyers involved.


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joannie ( member #42486) posted at 12:57 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

to him I too refer to her as your friend.....to me i call her bitch.I am for ever telling her to eff off in my head

cannot say her name to him..too french , too sweet a name although the name of a famous french prostitute !!!!!!that helps too......

to my friend she is called Gilbert.....i still love to call her bitch in my head , and worse...I used to be so nice once

me BS 57
Him WS 56
Married 37 years 2 sons 5 grandchildren

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Gemstone ( member #42000) posted at 2:26 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

Started off as the Skank

Now we both refer to her as The Troll

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NikkiD ( member #38173) posted at 2:30 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

I say "ya girl"...LOL!!

"Spoil me with Loyalty; I can finance myself...."
ME: BS-33
HE: WS-32
Married 3 years, known 20
2 kids
D-Day #1 12/30/12
False Recovery
D-Day #2 1/21/14
LTA 5 years-ish
Riding the "Struggle Bus"
Living apart....

posts: 668   ·   registered: Jan. 18th, 2013   ·   location: Midwest
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BtraydWife ( member #42581) posted at 3:07 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

Sausage Wallet

Me-BW
Him-WH
DD-March 2010

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aero1122 ( member #41575) posted at 4:23 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

I usually call her douchebag, c*** or just the plain old whore.

She really is all three rolled up so I could call her the DCW?

Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R

I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!

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Dawn58 ( member #37656) posted at 4:43 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

Initially, called her the skank. Then skanky bitch. Now, she's the "next one he's gonna cheat on." I should call her his fiancee but we know how that's gonna end up.

I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.

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SpecialK ( member #42372) posted at 6:46 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

Wow! I think the thread had just about covered

ALL the bases.

When I do think about "it", and have to speak of "it", I use:

Ghetto ho

That is truly what "it" is.

But when I want to make a dig, I call "it" his "girlfriend". Never fails to get his blood boiling! :)

And miles to go......

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soloney ( member #42621) posted at 7:06 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

"whore"

I gave her number that nickname in our ATT account, so if he ever has a phone conversation with her I will know right away.

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SadInNC ( member #42170) posted at 7:48 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

UglyAss Bitch from Whoretown

Slutface

Desperate Dirtbag Ho

BS/Me WH/Him

"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." -Unknown Wise Person

posts: 355   ·   registered: Jan. 22nd, 2014   ·   location: North Carolina, United States
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1000eyes ( new member #42559) posted at 9:17 PM on Tuesday, March 4th, 2014

Not really an OW per say but

This one escort my H used a lot, I call her the Klingon. Due to the insane amount of empty mountainous forehead she's got goin on. petaQ!

Me 33 Him 44
3yo DD, 3wko DD
A buttload of escorts for "massages" at
least 2 EAs, ACTIVELY dating on Match.com
Multiple Ddays most recent 12/13
Gonna hurt when it heals too

posts: 14   ·   registered: Feb. 22nd, 2014   ·   location: The frozen north
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LolaJean ( new member #42669) posted at 3:41 AM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

I refer to them as his whores. One of the OW gets the c word whore and I have heard a few refer to her by our old street name's street bicycle. She slept with 7 guys in a 2 block radius. Within less than a few months. We lived a couple doors down from her and at first he tried to make me not be friends, but be pleasant with her since we had the same group of friends. Thank goodness he put his head on straight, figured out that was ridiculous, we moved away, I'm hoping she went back to Whore Island.

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Flourgirl ( member #40937) posted at 6:31 AM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

We call her Super Slut. She has a huge vagina tattoo of a superman icon. She is very proud of her Super Slut status. I'm all good with wearing your art but really???

BS me 39
WH him 40
Dd 7/1/13. TT 7/22/13
SAHM with 4 wonderful kids

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lovehatelove ( member #42541) posted at 6:47 AM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Skank whore is used a lot...

What's her face...

Sometimes I just use the word "her"...

She had like 3 different names.... So I'm not even sure what WH called her when they were together...

[This message edited by lovehatelove at 1:40 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)]

DDay ~ 2/23/13

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william ( member #41986) posted at 7:56 AM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

my WW is the one who prefers nicknames. "him" for instance. i call them by their names. i also refuse to use euphanisms for what was done, i call it what it was. why should i sugar coat it all?

[This message edited by william at 9:12 AM, March 5th (Wednesday)]

me - bh
her - lara01

from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA

??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys

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Getting to Happy ( member #35200) posted at 5:33 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

For a while the ho-worker was called his 'wife'. And I became his 'business partner'.

WS him
BS me DD's 26, 25' DS 23
dd1 1-1-10, dd2 Mothers Day 2011, dd3 3-12-12 Hawaii trip with ho-worker...

Never forget what is worth remembering or remember what is best forgotten.
Unknown

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mainlyinpain ( member #39134) posted at 5:47 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

Toilet scum

When I am nice--coke whore.

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brokengirl37 ( member #42530) posted at 11:10 PM on Wednesday, March 5th, 2014

old leathery twat

Me: 40
WH : 42
2 Boys Age 12, 16
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker

posts: 92   ·   registered: Feb. 19th, 2014   ·   location: Canada
id 6711850
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