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Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 8:44 PM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2012
Sending Mosley some Mojo!!
Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 9:20 PM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2012
I hope Mosely doesn't eat ANYONE. It could go very badly for Mosely. Let's send calm mojo--or maybe couch-eating mojo to Mosely.
Hang in there Tesla; you seem to be on the right trajectory.
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
SouthernGal ( member #27315) posted at 9:43 PM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2012
Good point, Sad.
Let's hope that Mosley tears up all of Stripper Whore's shoes and pees somewhere inconvenient. 
BS (Me) XWH (him) M nearly 16 yrs
1 DD (teens)
D-day #1 12/09, #2 2/10
Divorced 10/6/10
Griefstricken25 ( member #29183) posted at 11:33 PM on Wednesday, October 3rd, 2012
and pees somewhere inconvenient.
Yes. Where they'll never find it, but the smell will linger...
Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011
osxgirl ( member #8795) posted at 12:42 AM on Thursday, October 4th, 2012
and pees somewhere inconvenient.
Yes. Where they'll never find it, but the smell will linger...
Oh - I was thinking more like ON STBX and OW while they are sleeping..... 
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 11:41 PM on Thursday, October 4th, 2012
The retliation has begun.
He's been really good about depositing exactly what I need to cover the bills. That stopped today...he dropped the amount to approximately what I would get for CS. (It's okay, I've been saving and also I have some good news that I haven't shared yet...suffice to say, he thinks he is hurting me but he's not)
Then I get an email saying that he 'accidently' turned off my phone. But if I would meet him at the phone store, we can get it straightened out. Yeah, it's cool dude...I've had an emergency phone for months because I knew that eventually you would pull this shit.
ANNNNND I get a second email asking how the paperwork on the D is coming. Seriously? You must be fucking kidding me...did you not blow off the settlement meeting? Do you not have a fucking L??? Crickets to that shit.
Nothing on the Mosley front. I'm confident that I will eventually get him back though. He must be going insane in that little apt. Although asshat says he's in the process of closing on a house.
Jeez. This guy. What a loser.
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 11:50 PM on Thursday, October 4th, 2012
I love that you are staying strong and maintaining NC.
You are driving him nuts!
But I do hope you get M back soon.
Huge hugs to all the good people and animals involved in this situation (i.e. everyone but STBXWH and stripperwhore.)
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
wontdefineme ( member #31421) posted at 11:57 PM on Thursday, October 4th, 2012
Cheater/liar/stbx handbook.
When your BS finally kicks your butt out and gets some guts, turn off the phone, stop giving them financial support and tell everyone its their fault, because you didn't want the divorce.
Mine turned off my phone and cut off the money too.
ruinedandbroken ( member #29250) posted at 12:03 AM on Friday, October 5th, 2012
Crickets to that shit.
lol... You are truly my hero!
Your NC must be driving him crazy!!!
“People who cheat feel that life is for the taking, and that everyone deserves happiness no matter what the cost. I must remember these tricks if I ever have my soul surgically removed."
Me: BS 42. Him: WH 41 2 Kids 8&11
Married 14 yrs Together 21
Griefstricken25 ( member #29183) posted at 1:13 AM on Friday, October 5th, 2012
JERK!!! 
I'm SO glad you are not vulnerable to all these shenanigans. Thinking of you often, Tesla. (((hugs)))
Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011
ZenMumWalking ( member #25341) posted at 1:20 AM on Friday, October 5th, 2012
Crickets to that shit.
CTTS - FTG!!!
I'm so glad you've had plan B in your back pocket after these dick moves.
suffice to say, he thinks he is hurting me but he's not
Hang in there, you are a total ROCK STAR!!!
((((tesla))))
Me (BS), Him (WH): late-50's
3 DS: 26, 25, 22
M: 30+ (19 1/2 at Dday)
Dday: Dec 2008
Wanted R, not gonna happen (in permanent S)
Used to be DeadMumWalking, doing better now
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 4:39 PM on Friday, October 5th, 2012
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 3:27 PM on Saturday, October 6th, 2012
(((((TESLA))))) Stay strong, Mosley will be back. You are doing very well with the crickets and the back up plan. If he can't see that it bothers you he will up the ante though. Be very prepared
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 3:54 AM on Wednesday, October 10th, 2012
Asshat had Teslet for the afternoon. Tonight, during our bedtime routine, I always give him a chance to talk about whatever. Usually it's just preschool prattle. Tonight it went like this:
Teslet: Mommy, I want to give some of my cookie to Mosley. Oh wait, daddy said Mosley isn't allowed at our house.
Me: (Trying so very hard not to bad mouth that piece of shit) How does that make you feel?
Teslet: Sad. I want Mosley to be at our house.
Sometimes I just want to punch that no good stripper-fucker.
What do I say to this kid? I just gave him a hug and told him that I loved him so very much.
Stupid, stupid selfish fucker. I am getting that dog back. I can't stand seeing Teslet sad over it. There have been a lot of hard things to get through the last 10 months but this ranks right at the top. How blind can that idiot be to the pain he is causing his son?
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
betrayedfriend ( member #19785) posted at 6:38 AM on Wednesday, October 10th, 2012
Go get 'em Tesla... Do whatever you have to do to get Teslet his sweet Mosely back. Do whatever you have to do to nail the skanky poor ass excuse for a real man's balls to the wall, and in the mean time, all you can do is hug your sweet boy tighter and just keep doing what you're doing... I hate him for hurting your son... I just absolutely hate him.
I originally joined SI as a way to help my best friends find ways of coping with infidelity, but now infidelity has touched my family much closer to home.
macakipa ( member #33735) posted at 1:46 PM on Wednesday, October 10th, 2012
Oh tesla 
My heart breaks for you and teslet. I wish this could end for the both of you, like, today!
M -25 years, T - 31 years, 4 children
Dday October 8, 2011 - Multiple PAs and ONs
Divorced 1-8-13
"When you give a lot of importance to someone in your life, you lose your importance in their life."
IrishLass518 ( member #34373) posted at 2:12 PM on Wednesday, October 10th, 2012
That is awful to say to a child. It amazes me the things they will say and do and still call themselves a good person. Hugs to you Teslet and Mosley. I hope that you will all be together again soon.
Me: 46 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 23, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"
Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 2:15 PM on Wednesday, October 10th, 2012
Oh your poor little guy!!
It would break my heart and my girls' hearts if my ex took our little Oliver away.
He has been the only man in the house since long before the piece of shit moved out.
I hope Mosley comes home soon. Extra hugs for Teslet for sure!!!
[This message edited by Lola2kids at 8:15 AM, October 10th (Wednesday)]
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
deeplysad ( member #16590) posted at 3:30 PM on Wednesday, October 10th, 2012
If Mosley is now being kept outside, is there any way to get him when no one is home?
Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.
itainteasy ( member #31094) posted at 5:39 PM on Wednesday, October 10th, 2012
That really pisses me off...
I know in his head he's saying HE isn't hurting Teslet, YOU are, because all you have to do is give him the other dog and all will be right with the world.
FTG!!!!!
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