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okaynow ( member #13813) posted at 5:06 AM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
Married 18 yrs, together 25+.
D-day: 2/18/07.
1 child
The story doesn't really matter anymore. Time is a great healer. Life is good.
island_girl ( member #22616) posted at 5:49 AM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
ahem. I'm here.
You can all simmer down now. 
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 5:55 AM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
I had forgotten about Pink Carnation. Glad for the update, thanks.
Still miss Marzi and wish Lisa would come back and update us.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
OnceInALifetime ( member #26023) posted at 6:20 AM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
island_girl, 'fess up, have you been lurking?
You'll be pleased to know I'm just as neurotic as ever. It's comforting to know some things never change.
I'll add GroundZero to the list of "where'd they go?" Always thought she was a brave soul, being a FWS that swam the General Forum waters.
[This message edited by OnceInALifetime at 12:23 AM, January 8th (Tuesday)]
island_girl ( member #22616) posted at 6:30 AM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
nope, OIAL, I just have impeccable timing. :) I am glad to know that you haven't lost that neurotic feeling though. I can't imagine how you'd live with yourself otherwise. (for the record, I'm a fan that your neurosis led you to edit that 3 sentence post just 3 minutes after you posted it).
I'm connected with GZ on the book of faces and last time we talked, she was doing great!
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi
OnceInALifetime ( member #26023) posted at 7:07 AM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
Hah, what you didn't know is that I edited it *twice* within three minutes.
need_hope ( member #23989) posted at 11:35 AM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
CluelessBlonde? Has anybody seen her?
There was also the one poster (I wish I could remember her name) who was posting about how she thought her WH had possibly tried to hire someone to kill her. And then she stopped posting. Does anybody remember her name and has anyone heard from her?
Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.
island_girl ( member #22616) posted at 2:02 PM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
oial, if you needed to edit it twice, I'm surprised you didn't edit your 3 sentences 3 times in 3 minutes. Just to stick with the threme. 
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi
stupidstupidme ( member #11888) posted at 3:54 PM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
I am friends with B+ and Willow on FB. They both are around and seem to be well :)
I often wonder about CB. Kidsbane was close with her here, and I recently asked her if she's heard from her, and she hasn't. I really wish she'd check in 
Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing. Use the pain as fuel, as a reminder of your strength
August Wilson
WhiteWolfWinning (original poster member #12475) posted at 4:08 PM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
island girl,
So good to hear from you! I have wondered about you.. and so many of the others mentioned.
I trust if anyone had heard from New York Jerry, we'd know... 
Wolf
Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply, Speak kindly. Leave the rest to God
Thank you, Lord, for the lightness of my burdens
OnceInALifetime ( member #26023) posted at 5:01 PM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
island_girl, would you edit your post please?
You had a typo, and it's really bothering me (threme).
Fireball72 ( member #20152) posted at 5:39 PM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
I've been wondering about iwantamiracle for a while. Hope she's doing well.
BS (me):44 (now 52) WS (him):42 (now 50)Married 3.5 years, together 5.5 D-Day #1 - 2/10/16 #2 - 2/20/16 #3 - 5/27/16 Divorced 6/12/17 One daughter, 9, the light of my life. Finally happy.
aesir ( member #17210) posted at 5:48 PM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
island_girl, would you edit your post please?
You had a typo, and it's really bothering me (threme).
Your mileage may vary... in accordance with the prophecy.
Do not back up. Severe tire damage.
Helen of Troy ( member #26419) posted at 11:12 PM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
I'm concerned about SkeerdButHopeful.
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 11:32 PM on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
need_hope,
You're thinking of BetrayedByLove. She's alive and doing as best as she can. She stopped coming to SI due to OW stalking issues. She tried to get a PPO against her, but the case failed. :(
Failure is success if we learn from it.
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 12:44 AM on Wednesday, January 9th, 2013
Great update to see that some of those who were actively posting when I first joined almost two years ago are alive and well. Life does go on after infidelity and SI offers so much support and a whole new family in some respects. 
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
island_girl ( member #22616) posted at 2:15 AM on Wednesday, January 9th, 2013
But I left that extra "r" there just for you!
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi
OnceInALifetime ( member #26023) posted at 5:11 AM on Wednesday, January 9th, 2013
Oh, I get it know:
three -> threme
Play on words? Please tell me you meant it that way. Then I'll be able to stop chewing my nails.
island_girl ( member #22616) posted at 6:23 AM on Wednesday, January 9th, 2013
Yep. It was supposed to be a very bad pun...
And WWW, it's good to see you on here still too!
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever. - Mahatma Gandhi
need_hope ( member #23989) posted at 1:45 PM on Wednesday, January 9th, 2013
Thanks little turtle. I've been worried about her but couldn't remember the user name.
Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.
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