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PanicAttack53 (original poster member #34195) posted at 5:32 AM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
It's funny when I think about it, but I've had a list of favorite music for each stage of "The Shitty Mess" as I not so affectionately call it. They've helped me to cope as I've moved through them.
This may have already been beat like a dead horse in D/S, but just thought I'd pass along my list of favorite divorce songs....
Blind - Lifehouse
My Give A Damn's Busted - Jo Dee Messina
In the End - Linkin Park
The Walk - Mayer Hawthorne
Fuck You - Cee Lo Green
Gives You Hell - All-American Rejects
Better Off Without You - The Clarks
Baby Bitch - Ween
Hailie's Song - Eminem
I'm Movin' On - Rascal Flatts
Fighter - Christina Aguilera
Have A Nice Rest Of Your Life - Randy Travis
Even A Fool Can See - Peter Cetera
Cold Hearted - Zac Brown Band
Time For Me To Fly - Reo Speedwagon
The Heart Of The Matter - Don Henley
I'm Still Standing - Elton John
Any suggestions for adding to my list would be much appreciated. 
Me-BH Her-XWW | B/ 59 on D-day (11/17/11) | D final on 10/1/13 I'm Lovin' life again!
Rest of the story really doesn't matter any more.
“Realize deeply that the present moment is all you have.” ― Eckhart Tolle
stillstrong ( member #36144) posted at 5:37 AM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
It's an old one, but Someday by Mariah Carey
Me BS 47
Him WS 51
DDay LTA Feb 21, 2006
R until DDay 2EA's 1/31/12 ONS 2/5/12 Broken NC 7/12/12
Moved out 9/12
Legally Separated 3/13
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 6:01 AM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Brand New Girl - Alicia Keys
Last Kiss - Pink
Try - Pink
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 6:04 AM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
I was stuck on Godsmack when ex-asshat and I split... if you want good and angry, "I Fucking Hate You" and "I Stand Alone" work.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
Loyalty2Liberty ( member #36714) posted at 9:55 AM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Take2 ( member #23890) posted at 11:34 AM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Over you Daughtry
I'm Outta Love Anastasia
Call someone who cares Tritt
Love these lists - I always find some songs that I add to my own list.
[This message edited by Take2 at 5:37 AM, February 5th (Tuesday)]
"We must be willing to get rid of the life we've planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us." Joseph Campbell...So, If fear was not a factor - what would you do?
debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 12:35 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Two black Cadillacs -Carrie Underwood 
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 1:27 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
A few that of my faves at the moment:
My Gun - The Rubens
Pink - Blow Me
Pretender - Foo Fighters
Scar - Missy Higgins
One of these days - Foo Fighters
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 1:40 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Stronger - Kelly Clarkston
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 2:03 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
I gonna write a song and I think I will call it:
FTG
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
KeepOnMovin ( member #38245) posted at 2:23 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Not so much a guy song, but i'd think, "I will survive" by Gloria Gaynor would be a good addition.
Me: Creating a better life for myself
Her: Somebody else's problem
Married: 22 years
2 sons at home
1 son in college
Divorced on 9/4/14!
Often it's the deepest pain which empowers you to grow into your highest self.
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 2:57 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
"Part of Me" by Katy Perry, for sure.
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 4:11 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Oh, and we can't forget "Before He Cheats" by Carrie Underwood.
I may or may not have done one of the things in that song. Just sayin'.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
bluecali ( member #35135) posted at 5:07 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Not so much a guy song, but i'd think, "I will survive" by Gloria Gaynor would be a good addition.
Ahh, but wait. Cake does an excellent cover of I Will Survive.
Me-BH
DDAY 12/1/11
Separated and uncertain
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 5:25 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Mary J Blige - The Living Proof.
Mary J Blige - No More Drama
Alicia Keys - Super Woman
Alicia Keys - Brand New Me
KJ Rose - Better Way
And the list goes on!
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
Faithful w/Love ( member #33128) posted at 5:36 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
BS(ME)41 WH(HIM)38
DD 21 and DS 16
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 5:50 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
"Cry Me a River"-- Justin Timberlake
"Digging in the Dirt"-- Peter Gabriel (my tagline)
Several of Dido's songs off of her first album, No Angel (someone cheated on her-- she talks a lot about the OW in songs)
"Rumor Has It"-- Adele
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
CharlieFoxtrot ( member #38010) posted at 6:02 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
"Happy Pills" Norah Jones
"Somebody That I Used to Know" Gotye
I want a copy of "FTG" by tesla...
Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning.
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 6:22 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
Guys, Pandora should totally have a "Break up" station.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
LineInTheSand ( member #20399) posted at 6:25 PM on Tuesday, February 5th, 2013
"Back Stabbers" -- The O'Jays
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qi2w9gWT6W8
And MY favorite...
"Thin Line Between Love and Hate" -- The Persuaders
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VbZzIG4ncXY
(((PanicAttack53)))
Take care of yourself. Life does get better.
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