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Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 4:56 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013
Late to the party, but adding MOJO to the mix and hugs.
K
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 6:28 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013
Wow, NIK, that's a lot to deal with.
sending mucho mojo your way!!
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 9:18 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013
Thanks. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:56 PM on Tuesday, March 26th, 2013
NIK, Count me in for the unfinished points. Keep breathing. Stay centered.
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
bitchboots ( member #38051) posted at 9:58 PM on Saturday, March 30th, 2013
I just saw this. (((NIK)))
You have more on your plate than any one person should in their lifetime, let alone all at the same time.
Sending mojo, hugs, good energy and positive thoughts your way girl.
More hugs....
Me: BS
DDay 4/27/2012---3 weeks after our 10 year anniversary.
Second DDay--1/2/2013--R is over
~~~~Finding my moxie~~~~
"May your past be the sound of your feet upon the ground"...FUN
uncertainone ( member #28108) posted at 10:09 PM on Saturday, March 30th, 2013
Just saw this. Sending positive thoughts.
Me: 37
'til the roof comes off. 'til the lights go out. 'til my legs give out, can't shut my mouth
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 10:12 PM on Saturday, March 30th, 2013
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 10:26 PM on Saturday, March 30th, 2013
Mojo for you today!! 
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
Chrysalis123 ( member #27148) posted at 11:06 PM on Saturday, March 30th, 2013
Mojo for you NIK and family.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
gma56 ( member #19595) posted at 11:17 PM on Saturday, March 30th, 2013
(((Nik and family))
Mojo and prayers for the other plates you have that are over flowing.
Gma
BW-Divorced
It's my life now, my choices, my mistakes to make and my victories to celebrate. His choices made me free of liars and betrayers in my life. That is priceless.
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 1:21 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
Just got an update on the timing for DD's residential treatment placement. There are two girls ahead of her on the waiting list, and several of the current female residents who they were hoping would be ready to go home are struggling lately, so now it looks like it will be late May before DD gets in.
I'm struggling with that news. That means another 6 weeks of white-knuckling here with DD, trying to keep things under control. I'm sure we will make it, but I know it will take a massive toll on both me and DD.
Could use a bump of mojo for those struggling girls to help them regain their footing so they can complete their programs and return home in a healthy way.
And any extra patience you can send to me and DD would be GREATLY appreciated.
[This message edited by nowiknow23 at 7:21 PM, April 12th (Friday)]
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
dameia ( member #36072) posted at 1:25 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
(((NIK)))
Sorry to hear about the bad news. I will be sending prayers and mojo your way (and for all the girls in the program and, of course, your DD).
Me: BS
D-Day: 7/7/12
Trust is like paper. Once it's crumpled it can never be perfect again.
authenticnow ( member #16024) posted at 1:29 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
Oh, NIK .
Sending a ton of mojo your way. I hope you can continue to get support from your loved ones and can find some peace between the difficult moments.
Hugs to you.
DS, you are forever in my heart. Thank you for sharing your beautiful spirit with me. I will always try to live by the example you have set. I love you and miss you every day and am sorry you had to go so soon, it just doesn't seem fair.
MovingUpward ( member #14866) posted at 1:31 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 1:32 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
(((NIK))) & (((NIKlet)))
(((struggling girls)))
Mojo for all... is your XH still staying with you too?
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 2:10 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
((((Nik & DD)))
I'm sorry. I hope that late May gets moved up to April.
Sending super mojo.
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:15 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
More mojo ... tons! (((NIK)))
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 2:19 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
(((NIK))) continuing to send mojo, strength, patience, peace. and seriously, I'll send chocolate too, if you need.
There is no joy without gratitude. - Brené Brown
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 2:25 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
.. is your XH still staying with you too?
No. He was excused from his duties after about 3 nights.
Thank. Heavens.
He lives less than 3 miles from here, so if he's needed, he can be here in a matter of minutes. Fortunately, he hasn't been needed yet (knock wood).
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 2:26 AM on Saturday, April 13th, 2013
And thank you, everyone, for the additional mojo, hugs, and offers of chocolate. 
I feel like I've been a sucking black hole of need lately.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
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