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Happydays ( member #38681) posted at 10:19 AM on Tuesday, April 16th, 2013
My question is for those that have experienced this. How long did it last?
It lasted till I was in the same house with FWW. I 180ed to my parent's house, and eat normally.
I had eating problems every time FWW was involved, false allegations, lies, false police complaints, finance negotitiations etc.
Overall lost 24 lbs, that's the only thing good that came out of her A.
I'm still maintaining the look for my first thread in the "new beginnings" section.
[This message edited by Happydays at 4:20 AM, April 16th (Tuesday)]
BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.
Phoenix1 (original poster member #38928) posted at 3:39 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
All I can say is the infidelity diet sucks! I'm down 10 pounds in 2.5 weeks. I wanted to lose a few pounds, but this is freaking ridiculous!
fBS - Me
Xhole - Multiple LTAs/2 OCs over 20+yrs
Adult Kids
Happily divorced!
You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending. ~C.S. Lewis~
wonderpets ( member #35901) posted at 6:57 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
I hardly ate, hardly slept, and still had enough anger and energy to go about a month.
I still remember my first real meal after, just was amazed that I felt like eating. Then I started falling asleep in mid conversation at work.
Awake2012 ( new member #39018) posted at 7:34 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
Its been seven months for me. I have lost 70 pounds. And it makes me sick when my husband comments about how great I look. Especially, when I first learned of the A he told me I was disgusting. You don't forget that. Anyways, I always made sure that I at least drank my protein. My friends are scared for me, but I just cant eat like I use to. Somedays just brushing my teeth makes me vomit. Best advice, eat at least a 100 calorie snack, 4 - five times a day. I force myself to do at least that on top of my protein drinks. Drinks are easier than food. Get a blender and learn to make smoothies. Or you'll end up hurting yourself. Now calories count. So, eat what ever you want. Ice cream is great too. Take care.
Be true to yourself, they can love you or hate you, but you will be you.
Dawn58 ( member #37656) posted at 10:20 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
I am four and a half months out and have gained back 3 of the 13 pounds I lost. I was thin to begin with, so I didn't have as dramatic a weight loss as some. I drank a lot of hot tea the first few weeks. Soup went down pretty well. Bananas, oatmeal and scrambled eggs were okay.
Everyone else seems more concerned about my weight than I am. I got worried when I hit the lowest point.
Ginger tea might help with the nausea.
I got into the marriage, because I loved him. I got out of the marriage, because I love me.
Happydays ( member #38681) posted at 11:00 AM on Wednesday, April 17th, 2013
Somedays just brushing my teeth makes me vomit.
Yep, pretty much happened to me as well. Sometimes just anything I put in my mouth, I thought I couldn't swallow or my body is going to reject.
BH 33
FWW 32
DS: 3 year old.
Dday 10/14/2012
No remorse so:
Divorced 02/15/2013. No alimony, no CS, got apartment. Won all battles and mind games off the courts.
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