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jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 12:35 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Do you go to bed??
On the weekdays?
On the weekends?
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 12:41 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Sometime between 11PM and 2AM, depending on how long Mr Silver and/or Lil Silver keep me awake (in other words, however long it takes for the TV to go off). That's indiscriminate of whether weekday or weekend.
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inconnu ( member #24518) posted at 1:23 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
10 PM is my "official" bedtime, on a work night. More often than not, it's much closer to 11, though. Weekends it depends on whether SO is here or not. When he's not here, we tend to chat until later than we do during the week, so I'm usually up until midnight or so.
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h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 1:25 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Weekdays: Usually around 9. (I have to make sure I'm up early enough to get to work before the teachers.) Weekends: Whenever I feel like it. Gosh.
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 1:35 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Anywhere from 10:30pm-midnight any night of the week.
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Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
kernel ( member #27035) posted at 1:42 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
LosferWords ( member #30369) posted at 1:42 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
12AM-1AM on the weeknights, 2AM-3AM on the weekends, unless I crash out earlier while reading in my chair.
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 2:06 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
10-12 all days of the week. That's in bed with light off but I can read anywhere from 30 minutes to two hours on my iPhone or iPad. Try not to stay awake past 12:30 on weeknight.
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
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Clarrissa ( member #21886) posted at 2:13 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
I'm usually in bed by 9:00 on weekdays, except for Wednesdays when I watch Supernatural and Arrow, then I'm in bed around 10:00. Regardless, I'm usually zonked by 10:30. I try not to stay up later than that since I have to get up early (4:45) for work.
On weekends I'm usually up til midnight or so and rarely sleep past 8:00 in the morning.
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FWW (me) - 51
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jrc1963 (original poster member #26531) posted at 2:16 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
We all go to bed at 9pm on weeknights...
And usually can't stay up past 10 or 11 on the weekends.
Summer vacations we stay up a bit later!
Me: BSO - 56 Him: FWSO - 79 DS - 23 D-Day - 12-11-09, R - he finally came homeYour life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"
simplydevastated ( member #25001) posted at 2:39 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
I'm physically in bed at around 8:45 each night. Depending on how tired I am I'll fall asleep right away. In a normal night I usually fall asleep around 11 or 12.
Me - BS, 40 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS11, DD8
Getting my ducks in a row for divorce... finally (4+ D-Days too many - listed in profile.)
imagoodwitch ( member #23375) posted at 2:44 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
I get in bed at 10 and read until I fall asleep, usually by 10:30.
I get up around 5ish every morning.
On the weekends around 11.
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misskirby ( member #34594) posted at 2:51 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Usually to bed around 11 on a weeknight, 12-1 on a weekend. That will probably soon change to an earlier time, since we're moving further away from my husband's job and he'll have to be getting up earlier for the drive!
Me-BS, Late 20's
Him-WH, Late 20's
M 9 years, together 14
DS and DD
D-Day 1/16/12
"Long is the way And hard, that out of Hell leads up to Light" -John Milton, Paradise Lost
BrokenRoad ( member #15334) posted at 3:03 AM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
@ h0peless's reference to Napolean Dynamite. 
I'm with SadinAZ, 1030ish up to about midnight.
Depends on how tired I am/ how much I have yet to do/whether my eyes will actually stay open.
{Him}FBH - 51 (WifeHad5){Me} FWW - 52 2 kids: 16 & 21 Reconciled :)*Learning is a gift. Even when pain is your teacher.*
TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 3:21 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
On the weekdays? 12:30-1:00
On the weekends? Same
Up at 6:00 usually. I'm just one of those people ...
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 3:35 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
We go to bed at about 8:00 PM weeknights as my husband gets up by 4:45 am for work and I wake up, too.
Now, that doesn't mean we go to sleep right away, but we are in bed. Husband falls asleep no later than about 9:30, sometimes he is asleep at 8:05. I usually stay awake reading or watching tv until after Jon Stewart at 10:30.
Probably about 10:00 on the weekends unless we are out and doing stuff. We still wake up too early on the weekends and can't go back to sleep.
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:37 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Weekends: Whenever I feel like it. Gosh.
I'm usually in bed around 10. Sleep is a whole different animal and varies greatly.
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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 4:20 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
By midnight during the week. Used to be 10pm, then I remembered that I'm only 29.
On the weekend... if I'm home, still midnight, if I'm out with friends, I dunno, 2? 3? depends on what we're doing.
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 5:32 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Do you go to bed??
On the weekdays?
On the weekends?
Generally speaking, during the week I try to be in bed no later than 11pm.
On weekends, I go to bed anywhere between 11pm and 2am, depending on what I'm doing or how I'm feeling.
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
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TrulyReconciled ( member #3031) posted at 5:41 PM on Wednesday, May 1st, 2013
Sleep is a whole different animal and varies greatly.
zzzzzz...'get off my quilt'...zzzzz
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
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