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libertyrocks (original poster member #38924) posted at 8:27 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
I will admit, sometimes, I make myself a little more sadder to music. Although I hate to do it, crying always makes me feel better. Haven't cried in a while...
I used to have a playlist called "runny mascara" on my ipod. Then realized I hadn't played it in a while.
Here's some of the songs:
Wish you were here by Pink Floyd.
Let down by Radiohead.
Love is a losing game by Amy Winehouse.
Wake up alone by Amy Winehouse.
Stepping Stone by Duffy.
Video of When you were young by the killers.(Always makes me cry when I watch it)
What are your sad songs?
[This message edited by libertyrocks at 2:32 PM, May 10th (Friday)]
Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 9:23 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
Recently it's been Pink's "Give Me A Reason".
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
Neithan ( member #35924) posted at 10:30 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
"Eye in the sky" by Alan Parsons tops my current list.
Don't think sorry's easily said
Don't try turning tables instead
You've taken lots of chances before
But I'm not gonna give anymore
Don't ask me
That's how it goes
Cause part of me knows what you're thinkin
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Me: BH
Her: WW
D-Day: 2/19/2010
Married 1981
That which does not kill me makes me more irritable
silverhopes ( member #32753) posted at 10:35 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
Lately it's been "Eye" by Smashing Pumpkins. Before that, "Another Sad Love Song" by Toni Braxton, also "Angel From Montgomery" (the version with Bonnie Raitt sings with John Prine). Surely there are more... been trying to listen to music that's not about love or relationships or sex... It helps get my head in a different place. 
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Aut viam inveniam aut faciam.
freelancer ( member #36529) posted at 10:53 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
I can't make you love me by Bonnie Raitt!
Me: BS, 38
Him: WH, 38
3 beautiful babies, 9, 6 and 3
DD1: 7/1/2012
OW#1: EA/PA for 14 months
OW#2: PA for 1.5 months
DD2: 9/17/2013 Back at it with OW#1 for 4 weeks.
HereWeGo62 ( member #34766) posted at 11:02 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
"Remember When" by Alan Jackson
If there is reincarnation I hope OM comes back as a low water flush truck stop toilet!
clralb ( member #17185) posted at 11:09 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
Ooh, "Wish You Were Here" is a great one.
This isn't really sad, but it kind of made me chuckle at the time.
"One is the Loneliest Number" by Three Dog Night.
I heard it on the radio shortly after our separation. I was alone in the car and the song came on, and I said out loud, "Shut up, Three Dog Night," and changed the station. 
"To keep the body in good health is a duty... otherwise we shall not be able to keep our mind strong and clear."
Buddha
Sue1964 ( member #37057) posted at 11:13 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
crazyblindsided ( member #35215) posted at 11:55 PM on Friday, May 10th, 2013
fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024
0115 ( member #31740) posted at 4:28 AM on Saturday, May 11th, 2013
Come on get higher...Matt Nathanson
BS (me) 49
FWH 49 newbeg2011
Married 29 years
Very Long LTA
DD 01/15/11-6/30/11
The hard work is done...let the healing begin.
Lostinthismess ( member #39210) posted at 4:46 AM on Saturday, May 11th, 2013
'You lost me' Christina Aguilera. The 'you couldn't keep your hands to yourself' gets me every time.
'You just keep living, until you are alive again'
'I don't want perfect, I want honest'
Uneek ( member #38416) posted at 7:47 AM on Saturday, May 11th, 2013
Wish You Were Here is the ringtone when H calls me.
Just Give Me a Reason is my big song right now. Also high on my list is You Were Mine by the Dixie Chicks.
Not a love song, but Wayman's Song/Crying for Me by Toby Keith and The House That Built Me by Miranda Lambert get me every time.
HardenMyHeart ( member #15902) posted at 7:47 AM on Saturday, May 11th, 2013
Life Will Go On by Chris Isaak
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZJe_BAcpEE
Me: BH, Her: WW, Married 40 years, Reconciled
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 7:55 PM on Saturday, May 11th, 2013
I don't know if these are sad, but I love adam lamberts what do you want from me (or whatever the name is... I only hear it on the radio)
I also like one direction all the right moves. I don't think it means what I thought it did, but when we were divorcing, the song went, "Everyone knows we're going down" and that was sort of my internal theme song LOL =)
Gottagetthrough ( member #27325) posted at 7:57 PM on Saturday, May 11th, 2013
ohhhh.... lady gagas bad romance is also a favorite. not really sad, but I always think of wh and our very own bad romance!
Alex CR ( member #27968) posted at 1:40 AM on Sunday, May 12th, 2013
Have to add another vote for Remember When by Alan Jackson
BS Me 63
WS Him 64
Married 35
Together 41
DD 11/16/09
I can dwell in the negative or seek the positive...one road is lonely...the other teeming with life.
idiot85 ( member #38934) posted at 1:53 AM on Sunday, May 12th, 2013
Love her madly- the doors
Most Maximo Park or Glasvegas songs
Better do better- Hard-Fi
I have The Imperial March (Darth Vader's theme) for when the Mrs rings me...
Oh and Maybe by Emili Sande and Suitcase by her as well
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BH-32 (me)
WW-31
Multi famam, conscientiam, pauci verentur.
ssi0318 ( new member #39225) posted at 5:44 PM on Sunday, May 12th, 2013
Stay - Rihanna
I won't give up - Jason Mraz
Me-BS
Her-WW - probable NPD
M 11 years, T 14 years
3 kids, all under 11
DDday #2 04/18/2014
DDay #1 3/18/13
I'm not happy - Nov-12
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 7:02 PM on Sunday, May 12th, 2013
There grew a little flower 'neath a great oak tree.
When the tempest 'gan to lower, little heeded she.
...
Sing Hey, lack-a-day
Sing Hey, lack-a-day
Sing Hey, lack-a-day, Let the tears fall free
For the pretty little flower and her great oak tree.
The song is from Gilbert & Sullivan's Ruddigore, and it brought tears to my eyes before the A. I can't even type the words without tears.
Hoping to help me feel better and not knowing the lyrics, shortly after D-Day my W asked me where the record was so she could play one of my favorite songs. I explained it wasn't a good choice, given where we were.
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fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
guarded ( member #25364) posted at 3:41 AM on Friday, May 17th, 2013
Reba McIntre: Every Other Weekend and also, Consider me Gone, from the same album.
In R? But how do you know it isn't another pack of lies?
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