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Amazonia ( member #32810) posted at 4:19 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
How are you today NIK? When will you get to see DD next?
"You yourself deserve your love and affection as much as anybody in the universe." -Buddha
"Let's face it, life is a crap shoot." -Sad in AZ
SoVerySadNow ( member #36711) posted at 4:22 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
((((NIK))))
Its nice that you are getting to see your DD right away.
Thinking of you.
Me:BW
Him:WH
D-day(s),after years of TT and Gaslighting was Labor Day Weekend 2012, continuing for a week after. *Dammit! More TT 3/9/13
Really trending toward D- planning about it is my "happy place" now.
nowiknow23 (original poster member #33226) posted at 5:13 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
I'm ok today, thanks.
I've set up a schedule with DD where I will visit her Sunday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday, but call her every day. Wasband will be seeing her Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and then both Saturday and Sunday as well.
I don't want to invalidate the "off topic-ness" of this thread, but two of the family goals that we set out during intake were
1. to encourage DD's independence while reducing her dependence on me, and
2. encourage DD's relationship with her father, so that upon her release, we can follow the visitation schedule we agreed to during the D.
There were several more family goals and a raft of individual goals as well. But those two specific goals are driving the visiting/calling schedule with DD.
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 11:54 PM on Monday, June 3rd, 2013
Still thinking of you, daughter, and even of wasband (mainly WRT his keeping his commitments).
[This message edited by sisoon at 5:55 PM, June 3rd (Monday)]
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 2:15 AM on Tuesday, June 4th, 2013
I am amazed by your strength. Hoping you have gotten some sleep. Hugs !
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
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